Mum is Hiding Something
My mum is hiding something, she use to let me look over her shoulder while she was working on her lap top she didn't have a password but she does now, when I approach she closes down and wont open while I am there, I was curious and walked up quietly behind her I managed to glimpse naked images, she realised and shut the lid, she was flustered and red faced and didn't know what to say, I an sure it was porn I would have thought she would have shared it with me and watched it together I am her grown up daughter we are very close we have washed each others backs in the shower and bathed together, we tell each other dirty jokes with lots of four letter words in them, we swear a lot when we are together, we are more like sisters, I am really disappointed mum wouldn't let watch porn with her and see what develops I want things to develop between us, how can I approach the subject
Bev
I think it was irrational of you to be disappointed she was being private about it because your mom is entitled to enjoy porn (or whatever it was) alone. You two are close but that doesn’t entitle you to automatically be part of her sexuality. But, she’s looking at the porn in an area where you often are, so it’s not like you’ve hacked her computer, even if you were a bit sneaky to get a peek. There’s nothing wrong with simply telling her you noticed her looking at porn and that you like porn, too. And that if she would be comfortable with the idea, you wouldn’t mind watching it together sometime. That makes clear your intentions without pressuring her.
You should not have disturbed your mum it was her private moment, she may have wanted to give herself some pleasure, and you spoiled it.
I am a mother and I like watching porn but I will not share it with my siblings
There I nothing wrong with watching porn as far as I am concerned its normal one of the greatest pleasures in life is sex, if couples want to record and publish it why not watch it, its the most natural thing in the world why not enjoy the pleasure of seeing it
I agree one hundred per cent
Its common for parents to watch porn even thought usually then will not admit it to there siblings, my mum caught me watching it, I was very embarrassed she said its ok carry on must watch porn its normal these days
I have watched porn with my mum we were really excited she made the first move and comforted me, after a short while we were what you could call full on.
Your mum is embarrassed about looking at porn. Until she feels ok about it, she will continue to hide it. Gently bring up the subject with or maybe let her see you looking at some tasteful nudes. It might allow her to open up more.
Good idea thank you who ever you are