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Not happy about sex anymore
I am 19 and I've been together with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and a half. We live together now, but our sex life is reduced to one, maybe two times per month. Since we've first made sex, he wasn't able to give me an orgasms while fucking me, basically, and everytime I try to act like I have one, just to make him feel confident (he doesn't have his penis very big, and is always dissapointed about it) anyway, the only times when I enjoy having an orgasm is when I masturbate myself, or when he is eating my pussy(but I don't have always an orgasm when he is fingering me). This summer we thougt about having a threesome, so we can spice the thing a little bit. The idea of two men fucking me in the same time, makes me wet only thinking about it, I always enjoy seeing porn movies where one guy is fucking the girl from behind, and the other stays in front of the girl, enjoing a blow job. Now I'm wet.. Anyway, my boyfriend said that if he lets me to fuck with another boy than him, he also want to fuck another girl. He confessed that he would love the idea of myself being bisexual, so I can both like women and men, but honestly, I don't like the idea of licking a pussy.. I am too jealous to let him fuck another girl, and he said that this is the only condition in which he lets me to have an amazing threesome. So this saying, we gave up on this idea..
However, the idea is that we don't do sex anymore (before, we used to fuck every single day, at least one time per day), and now when we have sex, I don't really feel any pleasure, and sometimes it hurts like hell(I assumed that it hurts because my pussy is not used anymore with sex)!. I really love him, and he loves me as well, but I just don't feel sexually attracted anymore.. What should I do?
Talk to him and tell him that you need it at least twice a week and if it hurts with him it will hurt with another and that isn't a reason for it to hurt anyways no matter how long you go without. If it hurts, you need to talk to the gynecologist. And, he is right, it isn't right for you if he can't too. Since you already said you didn't want him too, then consider that he is jealous of you that way as well and respect him by not cheating. I'd go to the gyne and go from there.
Me and my gf is in serious relationship from 3 years. We are too serious about our relationship. We use to having sex twice or thrice in a week. Actually I had a serious addiction of masterbate due to which I use to cum in 3-4 min during sex. When I use to fuck my gf slowly then it went to 10-15 mins but she like to be fucked faster. She loves it. But fucking her faster I use to cum in 2 - 3 mins and she use to afterwards that fuck me more.... Yess...fuck me fast...afterwards she didn't say anything to me but I know she wants to be fucked more by my dick. It feel very embarrassed afterwards. But sometimes I use to fuck her for 15-20 mins also but it happnd very rare. Plzz suggest me how to satisfy my gf. How could I cum late while fucking her...suggest
Quit masterbating as that messes up your drive. If you can go a 2nd time, then masterbate right before sex and then sex should last longer for you and you can go faster without going over the edge quickly.
If you're nineteen and already tired/bored with sex, you're with the wrong guy. The fact that you're not communicating what turns you on doesn't help. Stop faking orgasms. Let him know what you like, and show him how to do those things. Most straight women can't orgasm just from intercourse, despite what porn shows, so don't get hung up on that.
The whole threesome issue is separate. Don't have one to fix your relationship or to fill in a gap. Get your sex life with your boyfriend solid and fun before you consider adding a third party.
And frankly, it sounds like your boyfriend isn't too into the sex, either. If you give it a good try and things don't improve, do the kindest thing and break up.
In your next relationship, be honest about what you like from the start. And no more faking.
Dog? Wtf are you on?
Honestly - dump the motherfucker. Move on with your life and find someone who appreciates you.
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