Not proud of myself but just can't stop
So, married for almost 20 years and love my wife but just not sexually satisfied....ever!
Had a one night stand with a woman from work 16 years ago that's been a once of twice a month all out fuck fest ever since and now another woman that I work with got a little flirty, I got a lot horny and fucked her over my office desk. That was last week. Now, I'm about to stop by her place on my way home for a quick fuck before going home to my wife. Always safe about it, always with protection and all of us are married, this is purely sex. Like I said, not proud of myself, feel pretty much like the biggest asshole on the planet, but just can't stop.. I just can't get enough sex..
Understood. I was married 12 years, and, my now-ex wife just wasn't into sex. I had to go elsewhere. Favorite was a nurse friend I met at a bookstore. Chatted a bit, found out in similar field, and hit it off immediately. To be honest, she was out of my league hot, but I never complained. Just a lanky, sexy, steamy, tanned woman who drove me sexually crazy.
Told my wife I went holiday shopping one night, but, was having dinner and sex at the nurse's house. Problem was, when I left, I backed into the curb and got a flat tire. Had to call the wife and explain why I'd be late (the tire), but, I had it changed in minutes, cleaned up, and had sex with the nurse again. Nurse and I both knew, this was purely sex, we enjoyed it, and no feelings or future going on. Worked well until she moved.
Haha, unrealistic Christian flaming....I love it!
I can relate, during our 20s my wife and I had sex 4-5 times a week, sometimes 2 or 3 times each night. She started menopause early in her mid 30s and our sex life came to a screeching halt. We are both 49 now and for the last 15 years or so, I have had several relationships with other women. Pushing 50, I regret staying with her, it wouldn't be so bad but she refused to do any kind of treatment for the condition, she is a nurse and knows what is available for hormone therapy and such but just wasn't interested. After some monumental arguments, she informed me that "it is just the way it is and you should get used to it." I am sorry she has such a low opinion of my needs but I am not sorry for cheating and don't feel like an ass at all. Most of the time when we are intimate the wife will give me oral sex, it seems like she thinks that is the fastest way get me off and then she can go to sleep having fulfilled her wifely duties whether I am satisfied or not. I have to say, one of the most exciting times for me was after having sex with the other woman, after a month or so with none from the wife, she decided she was going to go down on me, she did it for a minute and then looked up and said "you taste funny." Then she continued and I had a wonderful orgasm. I would love a repeat of that except for the last few years, there hasn't been a woman I trust enough to go bareback with.