Caught My Wife Cheating, But I Cannot Get Angry, On The Contrary
I've been married for over 20 years. we have 3 kids and obviously over time and some things that happened because of stress related to work, our sex drive has gone pretty low. in the last 3 years we have virtually had no sex. I always thought this was because she never once ever showed she cared about sex anymore (after the 3 kids) and I did try, many times to get close, but was always rejected with many excuses. During our relationship, she has never been that sexual either (one blowjob a year, maybe). Never interested in anything "different", always very normal sex, never shown interest in anything sexual and very very prude. so in the last 3 years it's been a lot of "nothing", so to say. I have never cheated, by the way, and I have chances, but it's not what I want. Being technologically inept, she does not know I can read all her phone messages and also see her photos on ICloud. so my kids go to Capoeira,Brazilian Martial Arts and the teacher is this black brazilian guy who has many kids from different women, who proudly discusses the size of his d**k! so I first found a strange message one day. my wife regularly goes to have a massage down the road on saturday and sunday evening/night and then many times she goes out with some work colleagues. anyway, I found a message that actually said he was waiting for her! and after that a few descriptive messages with what happened! and for the last few months, that's become a regular situation. I decided to confront her, but then did not. we have 3 kids and we are trying to raise them up and give them a "good" life and I don't want to change that for them and at the same time, I don't want to lose her. So my shock and reasonable anger has changed into a curiosity. I have subsequently found pics and even videos. Her comments are what shocks me the most and they are also what gets me very excited too. She always comments on his large d**k and how she loves it and she has (last week) suggested that she would like to try some of his friends too and he said that he will ask around! This got me very excited and I am not very sure I know how to handle the situation. I don't want to lose her as a mother of my kids and a friend and I can see she is someone I have never known. Her sexuality has completely surprised me and she acts like nothing ever happened. I have tried to get close to her more than once but she has totally given me excuses. and at the same time, to imagine what goes on when she sees him and to find the descriptive messages drives me crazy with excitement. it's crazy.
Whatever happened? Where are you guys today?
Are you kidding me? She won't give it to you but she will give it to three big black guys, all while talking you down to them?
I know what I'd do, I'd make her kneal and suck it deep, and don't take no for an answer this time. Even just flat tell her you haven't had it for a long time and it's due. Then while blowing your load in her mouth, I'd pull out before finishing completely, shoot some on her face, and then say "I want a divorce". Let the shock of your comment sink in, and then see if she will humiliate herself further by trying to talk to you about it with your spunk still all over her face. Make that a condition of it. She can't wipe it off. She can negotiate you staying, and then do an encore performance for you again, while still wearing your first load!
If you end up staying at that point you'll have taken the control back.
Then if you're still into watching her with black guys, instead of her sneaking around with them and talking about making you humble with a cock cage while she services them, instead she'd be at home, face down, twat up, with a spreader bar between her legs, on her knees on a bed with them standing in line behind her, taking orders from YOU on how to slam her hole, while she services YOU with her mouth up front at the same time, and she better swallow too!
To top it all off, have them all, including her, call you "massa".
Yes sir, massa! Can I cum, massa? No, you f--king nigger! I cum first!
I'd never do that to anyone I love.
My wife has sex with other men on occasion as well. I don't mind it at all. She just asked me one day what I thought about her having sex with a specific friend she works with. I asked why. She said that she gets horny and I'm not always home due to work and masturbating doesn't always cut it. I told her I was ok if I could watch sometimes.
She does seem to like very well hung men. I can't be mad at her for it. I'm only 6 inches. Drives me wild when I come home and see her riding a guy with a huge dick
Thank you for your message. it's healthy to know I'm not feeling something so unusual. since the post, I know my wife tried him and two of his friends. the messages have been crazy, hot, and full of details. I have discovered a side I did not know of her but also of me. In one of the messages she said that she will talk to me... so I am expecting some truth and some developments. and in another message her guy, right after she had sex with the 3, is suggesting that I should be made to watch how it's done. The craziest message is when my wife says she can "imagine me with a cock cage all nice and humble"! it's driving me crazy with excitement and I am getting to terms with this. after she has seen the 3 guys, I have continously masturbated. thanks again for making me feel "normal.
Not so sure you understand at all.... sorry
Typical white man...letting a woman walk all over him... can you imagine the shit she tells theses blackies about you when that are fucking her silly?
Be a fucking man.
Why should you be the one caring about your kinds well being while she's getting raked by a huge black cock(S) that defiles her pussy in ways yours never has.
White bitches will never learn because white men are bigger bitches and put up with all the shit.
grow some balls.