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I am not comfortable with my gf and this older man
My Gf and I were about to end our relationship due to problems with sex. She is 22 and I am 19. We met in college, where we took each others virginity.
She gets upset telling me I do not last long enough for her. When I cum I do not want any more that day.
She sucks me dick for me but she does not give me good tongue action.
She wanted me to give her head, but I tried that with a girl before. I think that is nasty. I smelled hers one morning after we had sex the night before. I said no and made my mind up never again.
She went on line and talked with this guy, he gave us some suggestions and it helped. She was not sure,but she thinks she had an orgasm. Then she said he wanted to meet us and help us have better sex. I was not into that.
She met him alone, she said just for dinner. I know she had sex with him. When I told her it was wrong, she told me we were not dating right now, just having sex. She needed to work things out.
When she came on the weekends she seemed distant. She was not like she was before. now she wanted to be on top. She rides me. Now she wants to do it doggy style. And she seems like she has a lot of experience now.
Then last weekend she ask me to meet her at a hotel by her house. When i got there an older man said he would help us have sex and help me last longer. I lasted longer but she did not cum.So she told him to show me how it is done. He acted like he was giving a fuck lesson, but he just fucked her like some porn star. he made her cum and there was no question. when he got off her she sucked his cock. He told me she was doing it perfect. I did not need to expect better from anyone.
He sucked her breast while she rode him and told me that she likes that.
I got mad and told her I was leaving. she said she would be to my place tomorrow night. When she got there I gave her the cold shoulder. told her I was not her BF any more. She told me I was her fuck buddy now.
I think I have lost her. I will never be able to give her what that man did.
You're not a good bf if you don't love pussy.
I've been that guy for a hot little 19 year old hostess from the bar I go to. She and her now-ex were having issues, and, to put it directly..She was a little fk doll who needed a lot of sex. Sure, we started off having coffee one early evening after she was off work, but even I knew...I'd be fkg her very soon.
The guy had his suspicions, even accusing me of being "an old dude who should stay away from her", but I think that was his angry reaction to knowing his on the way out gf was getting filled up by a guy twice her age. She is really pretty, though. Very petite, great smile, and wrong side of the tracks-type allure. Bit of a dirty girl, but can clean up and look classy.
I still have at her once in a while now, and she has a new bf. We're just good at sex together.
I like what the lower commenter says get over it and give her great oral make her have the best orgasms of her life why should any woman put hard penis in their mouth if we're not going to please them
For trying new things and new positions damn right she's going to teach you some things she may not be the one but she's a good trainer for you when the one comes along
Sounds like the older guy is her fuck buddy now. Yes, you have lost her, but you are lucky - she is not girl friend material. Sex is more important to her that it is to you, and rather than working with you to improve that, she went and found it with someone else. And yes, like the other responder noted, you do need to be less selfish and improve. But she will do this her whole life - whenever she is not satisfied with the sex at home, she will go get it elsewhere. She is a slut. Nothing wrong with that, but she is not what you are looking for. Find someone who will love you for you. But use her now if you want to improve your sexual performance - she seems to be willing to do that. And get over yourself. Pussy smell just takes getting used to, and with practice you can give the best orgasms that way.
So... you're upset that you're a selfish lover who refuses to even try oral on her, bitches about her not doing oral properly, bitches about her wanting to try different positions - and you wonder why she wants to fuck other people???