Cheating and Confused
I am 37 year old white woman , I have been married to for 10 years, we do not have kids,
Two years ago, I went to Vegas for a girls trip ,bachollerette thing, 5 of us girls went.
One of the girls paid for male strippers to come over to our room dance for us , and than take us out into town
One thing lead to another , and while in the limo driving form dance club to another club or party, All the girls including the bride to be, had their hands and mouth around hard cocks, I want to say that I did not want to be left out , but I was horny just like them, and did just what they did
Fast forward 16 months, I young man get a job at my office, he looks familiar but at first I can not put it together, not even a week goes by, and he approaches me asking if I remember him , when I say that I do not
He shows me pictures of me and my friends from the limo.
There was no hiding from this one , you could clearly see my face, mouth open with a hard cock in my mouth ,on the side of me another young man , my hand on his erect penis,
Young man walks away , says nothing, I was stunned , I keep looking at the picture, I turn the picture over and see a phone number written with words
"Call me please so we can talk"
I make the call and meet him at the coffee shop after work, he informs me that he has pictures of all of us girls in similar situations , but that mine is exceptionally hot
He precedes to tell me that I must pay him 1000 dollars for this picture or he will not just sent it to my husband , he will also upload it on the company computers so all my co-worker would enjoy a new screen saver. I was stunned , I told him that I need a week to get the money , he agreed
I wee goes by , I get a text message from him to meet him at the bar across town to make the exchange
When I get there and tell him that I only have 700 that I could get, and that I will get him the rest in another week, He agrees takes the money and tell me that I need to give him a blow job, so that he will wait another weeks,
I thought I had no other choice, he precedes to tell me that he lives one block over and that I can pleasure him at his place , I agree and follow.
One week later I get a text to meet him at his place ,and to bring the money, when I get there and give him his money, he gives me the pictures and tells me that he has changed his mind, that I will pay him more money and that each time I pay him i need to pleasure him in any sexual way he wants,
Fast forward, to today I meet Jack ( the young man )
about once a week, we have sex , I don't pay him anymore, He has never given me the pictures and each time I try to make an excuse about not meeting him he brings up the threat of outing me to my husband and my company, I would be lying to you and myself if I said that I am not enjoying my visits to Jack's place
but on the other hand the threat is real, he does not treat me like his lover or girlfriend just someone who will do him how he wants and when he wants.
This all started with me trying to cover up something that happened two years ago , and now I am having regular sex with a guy who is blackmailing me
I do not see a way out, I am not really asking for advice, I just had to vent. but please I will welcome any comment thank you
Next time he try's this. Give him a blow job grab his nuts and bit down on his dick . tell him the picture or you loose your dick and nuts
Or, if this is still a problem, contact the police or local authorities. This is extortion which is always illegal no matter the reason. You may be able to push sexual assault and/or other charges. As a last alternative you may want to report this as sexual harassment also.
Early on in my marriage, I had a one-night stand with a single guy from work. He had a bit of a reputation as a very-well-hung stud, and I was super horny that night, so we met for drinks and he took me to his place and we fucked. His reputation wasn't nearly deserved: no big dick, and no stud. It was a major disappointment. He asked me to meet him again and I said no. He said he'd taped us together and showed me a piece of the tape, so I agreed to fuck him again but only if he gave me the original. I went to his place and we fucked all evening and he gave me the tape. Next day, he says it's only a copy and he wants more pussy. Now, finally, I see the play. So I go again, and I fuck him like a crazed bitch in heat, and I don't ask for any tape. Next day, I go to his office and ask HIM for sex. Tell him I don't care about the tape any more, I just want to fuck. Tell him he's flipped a switch in me and I need his cock. Not any cock. His cock. This goes on every day for a week and I'm amping up the sexed-crazed whore act for all I'm worth. Next day, I go to his office and I cry (I can fake-cry better than Meryl Fucking Streep) and tell him I've fallen in love. I don't care about my husband and kids anymore. I just want him. I'm in love. I'm in love. I'm in love. Don't care about my job. I'm in love. I beg. I cry more. I beg more. Please, I say, I want to be with you all the time. Forever. It was all lies, of course, but very very convincing lies. Use those three phrases on your stripper friend -- "love", "all the time", "forever" -- and he'll give you the evidence as he's running for the motherfucking hills. Some women will tell you to fake chlamydia or Hep-C or herpes or some other STD that you can't wash off or kill with penicillin, but believe me when I tell you honey: a player doesn't want to be around a woman -- not ANY woman -- who wants a commitment and who won't stop talking about it. In poker it's referred to as calling the bluff.
Very good hun. I'm gonna have to remember this for the next time I get into a trap that I can't seen to get out of.