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Found Explicit Video on Girlfriend's Computer
My girlfriend of a year recently had me work on her laptop, as she had been getting the "blue screen of death" frequently. I traced it down to driver conflicts, and fixed it.
However, while scanning trough the drives, I found a video of her having sex with two guys, while her best friend (a lady) watches. It was deep in an obscure folder on her hard drive. The date of the video is from a couple of years ago. My girlfriend gives head to a guy on a couch while another takes her doggy. Both of the guys finish in and on her. Her lady friend sits half-dressed, smoking a cigarette, and watches.
I'm a little shocked about my girlfriend's behavior, even though it was before we were together. I'm terribly conflicted about whether to bring this up to her. On the one hand, it feels like maybe this should be none of my business. On the other hand, I'm a little disturbed that she could be so loose with her sexuality. She never has come across as that type.
Don't carry a secret. Tell her the truth: you found her video. Take it from there.
You're right! IT"S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS! It was before you got together and so it's her business only. The fact that you went so deep into her computer "files" and not just her programing and config systems, tells me you might have been looking for something. Yes I fix computers too. Maybe you wanted to find something. Maybe because of something you might have done in the past. Or maybe you've always though she's too good for you and you needed to bring her down a peg.Bottom line is, you went looking and now you've found she can be a bit kinky. SO WHAT! Get over it and don't say a word.
Fuck that, I have a completely different take on this.
See I'm on the opposite end of this spectrum.
I am/was/always will be a sexual freak.
I'm older married now with kids and my wife is pretty straight laced and doesn't have a clue of the things I used to do or am into.
If you like this girl & maybe think she's "the one", my advice to you is, gently bring up fantasies or things you may or may not be into. See if she comes clean and makes sure you know what she's really into. Also ask yourself do you wanna be with someone so freaky. If "yes" then fucking game on! Sky's the limit with you two. If you can't handle someone like that, it may be a blessing in disguise you found this out, you can step out before she feels the need to cheat on you, cuz trust me friend, freaks don't change. Once a freak, always a freak.
I can understand your concerns but you don't know the full story. She may have known the guys for years, was sure they were clean etc. Plus she's a grown woman and is free to explore her sexuality. As long as she's faithful to you whilst you're together it doesn't make the slightest bit of difference to your relationship.
^^ Ditto ^^