My wife of 20 years is fucking a 18 year old teenager
Ive not long found out that my wife of 20 years is fucking a 17 year old teenager a friend of our sons ( my sons the same age as him) he was at our house one day looking for our son who was out that day this was 6months ago and i found out by accident and i confronted her and she reluctantly confessed to it, seemingly what happened was that when she was talking to him she noticed his eyes were all over her and she noticed the bulge in his pants and it was huge, and she seduced him ...yes she seduced him ...it didn't sink in at first as i was probably in denial ...she told me she dragged him to our bedroom ( i don't think he took much dragging somehow ) ripped his clothes off took his cock in her mouth and sucked him then she let him mount her and even let him cum in her, she says she doesn't know what came over her and she just couldn't resist, for the life of me i cant understand why she's done this to me as our sex life's great and always has been, this has been going on for all this time unbeknown to me and my son, i thank god for that, she's very regretful and cries a lot, but if she had been that regretful she wouldn't have carried this on, i want to get a hold of this boy and teach him a lesson but i don't know who he is at present and i really don't want to get into trouble as I'm not a violent person , I've thought about divorcing her but I'm frightened that everyone will find out what has happened and what shes done ...especially my son , what can i do as i don't want to destroy our family ..she says that she loves me but how can she when shes done this to me and our son , I'm extremely angry and i don't know what to do and its killing me ..I'm not sleeping and I'm not eating very much and all because of her stupidity.
42 f widow boyfriend 20 you go girl
I bet your sex life has greatly improved with your wife now that she is more experienced at the art of making love to a man! Enjoy it!
Cheating on you isn’t a lifestyle like swinging. There is that dishonesty in cheating, and quite frankly I think that they are cheating to “Trade up”. I got married at 17 to the first girl that I dated. She got pregnant and told me it was mine.
Lived with her lies for 35 years, then I found out my oldest daughter wasn’t mine, 3rd daughter wasn’t mine either. This is from a woman that told me that sex was such a chore.
Got divorced, she took everything but it still was so liberating to be free of that whore. 3 years after I hit a lottery and am living well. Her and her two whore daughters live in a trailer.
My 35 year old wife was fucking a 25 year old employee Not a great feeling to get over
Calm down she had a fling.
If the original poster ever comes back, I'd like to hear an update. Did you leave her? Did you not and you caught her cheating again? Or are you confident that it was a one time thing and she won't cheat on you again?
You obviously love your wife and she loves you,don't let jealousy ruin things,a similar thing happened to me,I was angry at first but as soon as we'd talked about it and realised my wifes fantasies and I told her mine it made for a much better relationship between us,I found it a real turn on watching an 18 year old fucking her! Try it
Some months before we married, my 23 year old girl friend was fucking a 16 year old boy while she was in Sydney and I was in Japan. It really turned me on when I found out. Later after we married I let her do the same thing with other guys and I loved fucking her right after she got home after fucking some other guy. It really helped our marriage although it seems counterintuitive.
As long you understand each other as a human being not as a property
My fifty five year old fucked a just adult tiny boy in a carrabien resort
The boys short but thick dick had given her such a pleasure that she still talks about it and the boy thanked her for his first exp…..and she says he had com in her several times and on our departure He would us go she promised to com and see him again
Fuck her sister or best friend
I would to watch my wife do this
My wife loves to seduce younger guys.
Whats the problem.
She loves you. Enjoy it. Maybe watch her from closet riding him.
My wife of 30+ years has been having an affair with the high school boy down the street for two years now. It turns me on to the max! They don't know I know, but it is plainly obvious. I have several tapes of them fucking in our bed, and she fucks him better than me. I jerk off watching them fuck, and hearing them moaning when they orgasm with each other. I make sure they think I am gone for a long while so they can fuck and suck to a full climax. It turns me on to hear them. When I "come home" I like to make love to my wife, and feel her lovers sperm on my stiff cock inside of her wet pussy. I mix my cumm with his with my stiff cock, and it makes me cumm even harder. What a turn on! I want it to continue!
You should have asked her to arrange another one so you could watch and slam your meat.
Would like two for my wife the more young guys the better
I was in college and went home with one of my roommates. I wound up fucking his mom. Some of the hottest sex I’ve ever had. His dad found out about it but was OK with it. They kept it a secret from their son, my roommate. They wanted me to come back again.
I went back there one weekend by myself. I didn’t tell my roommate I was going. That is where I found out that it was his dad that wanted this to happen. He wanted to eat her pussy after I came inside. It was kind of weird but I went along with it.
Hey, where are you
I agree with some of the posts. Enjoy it. Your wife is hot enough to land a 17 year old guy and she enjoyed it. Let her do what she wants and if you are secure enough, you should watch her. I have been letting my wife of 22 years fuck whoever she wants for the last 2 years. As soon as our kids were grown and out of the house she became very sexually active. I love to watch her. She has been with many partners from black men to teenage boys and women too. It is a challenge for her and her confidence is better now than ever. I still get what ever I need from her and she is more adventurous now than ever.
Not sure if you are going to see this, but I assume the son is out of the picture now. If you are still angry or things are not going well, I would leave. Quit worrying about what others think. She did this, not you. As a woman who has done it, the urge to do it again never leaves and she will be tempted to do it again. That was the only time you caught her, but that doesn't mean there were not any others and that she didn't lie about others. If things aren't great by this time, then don't waste any more of your short life on her. Find someone who loves you.
Would you turn down some 18 year old poon if it was readily available? Yep, didn't think so.
You can't even get the guys age right - is he 17 or 18. Sure sign this is a load of lies.
U are finish...lol
She's clearly made an absolute joke of you. If you had any sense of self respect i'd walk away and tell your family you two simply fell out of love. And you probably think it was her one and only event.
Why don't you join in and have a threesome
We double penetrated my freins 10 year old niece after school
Ask her to bring the boy over when you are home so that you can watch and pull a train on her. You will find that you and the boy can fuck her all night long. You will love it. If she wants to be a slut. Fuck her like a slut all night long, you and the boy.
That young buck is fucking your wife right because you aren't getting the job done, pal. That's on you. Good for her! Life is too short not to enjoy it.
Yeah so, you think she should just go out and get it? before speaking to him? before considering anybody else but herself?! now thats just being a downright bad person i do not want to have anything to do with. i mean its all fine to me, as long as everyone is informed and okay about it, but anything else is just being a fucking selfish bitch.
Enjoy it. I love Fucking my wife while she is full of someone else's Cum.
I have a fantasy and that is to kiss her and go in her after she has had several strangers all nite long
Same fantasy here
Violence would solve nothing, I think you already know that. Let it go. Work things out with your wife. You've never done anything wrong? Stop punishing her.
Good for her! I hope she's enjoying it and they aren't using protection. I'm a married man and a sissy faggot, I bet she did it because his c*** is bigger than yours. i bet she only cries because its over. Go get yourself some young hot chippy and f*** her and take pics and show your wife.
Ur wife is 20y & ur son is 17y ??????
NO he as been married to his wife for 20 years and their son is 17 years old
Well you are lucky it is an 18 year old. At that age he doesnt know anything about pussy pleasing and He probably blows his wad within a minute of ramming your wifes pussy. I remember at that age a couple of times cumming before I even put it in the girls pussy just from looking at her pussy and sucking her tits my cock rubbing against her leg just made it explode. The only down side is at that age while it may be a quick ride his cock is rock hard throbbing and can probably go 7 or 8 times aday. I wish I still got throbbers. I know that probably makes a woman feel wanted
My wife was unfaithful to me with two men she worked with, after a year of marriage. When I found out she claimed it was because of her strict upbringing, not being allowed out much. I forgave her. After having two children, she started again, she fucked men at work, and half of my friends. At 40 she had a 20 year old boyfriend. I gave her the ultimatum to either stop or I would leave. She stopped but there has always been a resentment. After 48 years of marriage I still don't trust her. I now wish I had left her 25 years ago, it's a loveless marriage. Don't waste your life like I did.
Yeah you should've left then, but it isn't too late. God even allows divorce on the grounds of adultery. I wouldn't waste any more time. Find someone who will love you and who isn't married already.
Geez! She definitely made a joke of you and you were silly enough to tolerate it all... LOL
Anyway, Your advice is true and correct. He should wise up and walk away
I would say to talk it over with her, you think your sex life was great, she evidently needed something, maybe not sex but attention or something. If you don't talk and listen to each other it will fester and neither of you will get over it.
I am so sorry this happened to you! There is no good reason for a woman to cheat. She may love you but she clearly does not respect you enough not to cheat on you. As for your family, if your son still lives at home I would try to keep the marriage together until the day he moves out. I would try to take your wife to a marriage therapist, not to get your marriage back together, but to find out what happened so you can both understand. Closure is extremely important to have and it looks like that is what you are missing. As for other people finding out, it will probably happen so it's best to get it out in the air now before it hits the rumor mill.
My now ex-wife cheated on me with an old boyfriend after 7 years of marriage. I know things weren't perfect between us but we seemed like a good couple. I suspected something had changed though, but somehow was still shocked when I finally found out. My only option was divorce. Some men can get past it, but I know I never could, and I am glad I got away from her now. Since then I have remarried, and working on 14 years now. She is great! So great that I actually posted here about some of the good things she does for me! Trust me, life gets better even though it seems hopeless now. I went through the sick feelings, lack of sleep, weight loss and depression. Then I got past it and I was literally amazed just within months at how free and alive I felt again. Wow! It will get better, but you'll have to find a way to get past this now, by either leaving her, or working to repair this relationship. As hard as leaving sounds, as much work as it would be to untangle your lives from each other, separate finances, possessions, finding a new place to live (or make her), changing insurance beneficiaries and all the other stuff (the list is loooong).......this may still actually be easier than trying to reconsile the marriage. I knew I never would be able to. I am a loving person, have a lot of love to give, and I want it given back in return. Love, trust, and communication. Those are the three essential things needed in a marriage. Take out just love, and all you have is friendship. Take out trust, and you're miserable because the communication will feel like half lies. Take out communication and you very shortly will lose trust too, and finally love. Right now, you have lost trust. You may still have love, but how much? You obviously do have communication, but again, how much, and how much of it is believable. For me, the choice was easy. I found it far easier to separate finances and arrange a new living space. The other choice was just too much of a burden to bear.
You got dishonored by your wife, shameful. She broke her vows, is a liar. What about security; maybe he was playing her to leave you get money and dump her, some people are really naive (why would you believe her story of what happened?! if she already showed that she cannot be trusted). Safety, I mean HIV ...get her tested!!!! All that cannot be undone, its your life, I would dump her, but before she has to confess it all to her son (otherwise he will be forever confused). You need to find out how that boy was! Confront him! Have some balls, accountability and respect, dont let people shit/fuck in your own house without your consent!!!!
Just enjoy the fact that you have a hot, horny wife and stop whining. She's not in love with the teenager - she picked a kid because of his big hard dick and stamina. It won't affect her love for you - in fact, it's your husbandly duty to make sure she's satisfied even if that means lending her out and accepting that you may not be able to do the job.
I would let her to bring the boy in for more pleasure do not be possessive
She is not your property would be emphatic if she want and likes you as a partner
You are f-ing stupid
Indeed, you make the most sense.
Growing 2-gether through life does not mean to make the relationship a prison. Instead share the carnal pleasures we all desire -- even if it would mean; adding spice by bringing in a mutual agreed 3-party.
Life is short -- do not waste it with bitterness and control.A
My wife and i have been married for 54 yrs and the thought of what you say is really dumb
Well thats all fine and good, BUT she pledged herself to be faithful. she wanted him to be the only guy in her life and vice versa. you cant just wake up one day aufter 25 years and say: hey, i need another cock, you have to be okay with it. and its not control if both want the same thing. I, for example want just that. a loving, MONOGAMOUS relationship. and if that situation would arise, i would want her to tell me whats happening and i want to decide if i want to be a part of it or not. it certainly isnt my duty to fulfil her that, as it isnt her duty to be facefucked (for example) as deep, as hard and whenever i want it. (its basicly the same - a desire). if gals like you wanna live like that, feel free to do it. but first, find the right man, who will stand by you through that. do not trap honest men!
Life happens for better or worse. Being tied to one person can get boring which is why I am chosing not to marry. We get old and gross and then we die. It sounds like your wife has a lot of living to do and you probably do too. I would suggest you get a lawyer and start putting things behind you and start living like there's no tommorow.
FUCK D.BOYS ARSE N POUR UR SPERM IN HER MOUTH
Well if it was me i would tell her if it ok to fuck a eighteen old boy it must be alright to bring home a nice young eighteen girl and fuck her and see how she likes that.
You can regain enough control to realize you have a workable relationship when you and your wife set ground rules for her fucking around.
you have to decide what is important (family stability, avoiding scandal, avoiding disease, keeping your sex life vital, knowing you can trust each other, honesty, rigorous honesty)
you might find that an honest relationship with your wife is way sexier than a "reassuring" one.
Exactly. His wife made a mistake let it go or try to enjoy the fun of it all. There is zero sense in destroying a perfectly good relationship over a 17-18 pet.
ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER
Not always. I was a serial cheater all my life. One day I woke up and decided I was done with it. I don't even have the temptation or the thought of it. No more chasing skirt and flirting with other woman.
So well put! So true.
You can regain enough control to realize you have a workable relationship when you and your wife set ground rules for her fucking around.
you have to decide what is important (family stability, avoiding scandal, avoiding disease, keeping your sex life vital, knowing you can trust each other, honesty, rigorous honesty)
you might find that an honest relationship with your wife is way sexier than a "reassuring" one.
IF YOU WISH TO GIVE HER A CHANCE THEN SHE HAS TO BE COMPLETELY HONEST WITH YOU. SHE NEEDS TO TELL YOU THE NAME AND THE DATES OR SHE WILL ALWAYS LIE TO YOU. YOU MUST BE THE ONE WHO SETS THE RULES AND CONDITIONS. SHE MUST JUMP TO FOLLOW THE RULES AS YOU SET THEM DOWN OR SHE WILL JUST KEEP ON CHEATING BECAUSE SHE JUST SEES YOU AS FOOL THAT SH CAN GET OVER ON ANY TIME SHE WANTS.
You can regain enough control to realize you have a workable relationship when you and your wife set ground rules for her fucking around.
you have to decide what is important (family stability, avoiding scandal, avoiding disease, keeping your sex life vital, knowing you can trust each other, honesty, rigorous honesty)
you might find that an honest relationship with your wife is way sexier than a "reassuring" one.
Cheating is A LOT more common than most people realize. It happens all the time. If you guys still fuck each other, and she still loves you, then let her fuck around. She'll be happier and probably even better in bed with you. If I were you, I would stipulate that if you let her fuck around, that you too should have some freedom, though.
And in most of the cases if they did cheat that does not me the did not want
May the society limit and ,believes of all kindes , ….had hold them from bringing it to action
YOU ARE A FOOL
What happens when she realizes he does not get her turned on anymore? He becomes her emotional crutch and cuckold.
Man you are the luckiest man on the planet. You have a hot fucking wife that loves cock! Let her do as she pleases and be happy you can still fuck her. I'd consider getting her a boob job and some sexy clothes and show that shit off!
YOU MUST HAVE A DEGREE IN STUPID
Why so she can dump him and get with the kid?
I live in a college town, and it VERY easy to go to the bars off campus and pick up young girls. And I'm 40. Maybe that would make you feel better. Your wife is obviously a slut and if you think this is an isolated incident, I'm afraid you are wearing blinders. I would dump her.
She sounds pretty hot and is probably just expressing that, or acting on it. Don't divorce her, and don't discourage her: let her have some fun! You might even enjoy her freedom!!!!
I've spoken to her about all of this as the tension in the house was becoming unbearable, I have forgiven her as after having thought about it long and hard and it was driving me insane, she made a mistake and we've all made mistakes in our life I suppose and life is beggining to feel a bit better now for the both of us, you suggested I let her have freedom to fuck other guys and not to discourage her, as you say and I have to agree with you that she is a very hot woman and is very good looking and great in bed, but I'm afraid if I let her have that freedom to let her fuck other men where would that leave me ? She might not want me to fuck her any more and prefer to fuck other guys and I would hate that to happen, we want to rebuild our marriage and get it back to where it was before all this happend, has she fucked other guys before this young boy ? I really don't know and if she has then I don't want to hear or know about it, I'm still frightened that our son gets to hear about how his friend had been fucking his mother for all that time, I know what young guys are like as they boast to their friends about their sexual conquests and mostly in graphic detail as well, if they told him how his mother seduced this boy sucked his cock, let him mount her and fuck her and cum in her, then it would be a great shock to him to hear that and he would probably be ashamed that his own mother let his friend fuck her, I heve to admit that she is a great cocksucker and a wonderful fuck and always has been, but should I tell my son all about it before he finds out from one of his friends, that's a hard decision to make and I don't know if I could bring myself to tell him.
You should make your wife do it. I would suggest an intervention type of setting with a psychologist there to guide. I wouldn't say a thing, because it is her story to tell. It should be her albatross to bear, not yours or your sons. She needs a reminder of what happened and how it made her feel. You didn't betray. She did. Why do you think she is crying? She regrets something she can't just take back. Forgiveness is for you to reconcile something that was done wrong to you. It is a gift to you as much as her. It does not mean you have to trust her.
I agree with you not "letting" her sleep around. I use that loosely, because she ultimately has to decide if her love for you and her son are worth not sleeping around. I read how you weren't sleeping an eating. It sounds like you have severe anxiety and trust issues. I hope you find peace somewhere.
I also have a mother. If she had slept with one of my close friends, I would be mortified. An acquaintance might be less hurtful. I also would have a difficult time ever looking my mother in the eye and my friend. I would say your son needs your support more than your wife once he finds out.
I am a father. I have a daughter and a son. I would never entertain the idea of sleeping with my children's friends. I am able to recognize with foresight the irreparable damage to the bedrock of trust that took years to build. You may find divorce is the only logical answer, if you think she will do it again. She might even think divorce is the answer. I wish you and your family the best in recovering from this.
You should tell him at least if you do then he will less shocked when they tell and will be able to react to the news, in a way that would be preferable to him. At least when you tell, it wont be in a joking tone that would be sure to lead to a fight, because like you said they will talk about his mother like she was a conquest, and he is not going to stand especially if it's the first time he's hearing (though I can't say hearing something a lot desensitizes it to the ear, and considering the topic...) Well I'll just leave it at better you than them.
If she's getting plenty of sex from you at home, and your needs are being met, then why not allow her to play? If she's that hot then you should be supportive of all her needs, including the need for young cock. She's going to be a happier and more fulfilled wife, and that's only going to make sex with you better. Encourage her to date as many as she can.......and to fuck them ALL.
So lets say she has an old reliable buick in the garage. A hot new sports car drives up. She takes a test drive and loves the thrill. She might take the old buick out on a Sunday afternoon some time, but her mind is always waiting for that sports car. Eventually, the Sunday drive becomes birthdays and anniversary out of pity, not wanting to share love. At some point apathy sets in and the buick becomes a relic just taking up space where she would rather put a sports car. If I was the faithful, loving buick, the least I would ask is that my owner would rather stay home or sell me so I can have someone who has appreciation for me than to run around with a sports car. I can't believe people don't demand more of their spouse. Not cheating is easy when you love someone so much you don't want to risk losing them.
BRAVO
Sorry this happened to you.I am not minimizing it but it probably happens a million times a day to unsuspecting lovers and spouses like you.Its an epidemic,though that does not make it right(remember OJ is suspected of fathering two daughters with Kris,his best friend's wife?).Someday,log on to experienceproject dot com and see for yourself what people do in real lives.
Therapy will be good for you and maybe your wife.Violence or confronting the boy will be bad for you mentally and legally.Revenge may seem like a better option but its only temporary.Removing yourself from the shared home may be beneficial for both of you,while you both heal and reflect.
I'm sorry to share this with you but I have spent many years fucking married women.I have asked questions and listened;there is a million reasons why they cheat and to them,every reason under the sun sounds plausible and valid and they expect you to understand,forgive and pretend nothing happened.ONE OF THE MARRIED WOMEN I FUCKED LAST YEAR TOLD ME THAT WHEN HE HUBBY CAUGHT HER CHEATING 3 TIMES MONTHS AFTER THEY FIRST GOT MARRIED AFTER COLLEGE,SHE GOT BETTER CRIED AND ASKED FOR FORGIVENESS ENDLESSLY EACH TIME.With 3 grown sons,and 25 years of marriage,she said she has discreetly slept with 101 lovers,some of them for an extended period of time, and hubby has no clue.Some of the women I have fucked are extremely trusted by their husbands and have been married for long and most have been doing that for long.I am sorry to say this but I highly doubt that your wife will stop just with this boy or this is her first and only time.Since my 20s,I have and been seduced by married women,they would stop at nothing to have sex with me.I loved the feeling and to this day,I have been hooked on them.don't think am bragging,I am simply sharing my experience with you so you can see that what happened to you could happen again and again.Try fucking some woman just for your own sanity.I have been cheated on,I get it!
Cheaters. cant live with them. cant trust them. but love them too much to let them go sometimes.
But to save our self respect, we have to let them go. I will not have a woman treat me like this. I am not some cuckold. I expect my woman to treat me with the same respect as I treat her. When that is gone, so is the relationship.
Thank you. I don't think it is demanding to ask someone to be faithful in a marriage. The more I read from the guys who have slept with married women. The sadder I am for this world. Cheating and lying are two things I hate. Maybe it is my personality.
Just get rid of her. your son is old enough for this to not affect him as much as it would if this were to happen when he was younger. the way i see it if she really wanted to stay with you she wouldn't have seduced the boy. whose to say he is the only one? whose to say she wont do it again? obviously she felt no remorse about it when doing it and if she liked it that much what's to stop her from doing it again.
Assuming their affair is over, the thing you need to do is . . . forgive her. [Forget about the boy: he was nothing more than a means to an end.] It's commonly believed that forgiveness is solely for the benefit of the person being forgiven, but that's completely untrue. Forgiveness is about the forgiver, and the weight it frees him of, and the strength and love it takes to do the forgiving. You will be utterly amazed by how much better your life will be once you find a path to forgiving her of this indiscretion, and that's the way for you to go. Having said that, I'm not telling you to be a fool or to turn a blind eye to an ongoing (and unlikely-to-end) transgression, so you have to be convinced that she's not still with this boy or intending to repeat the relationship with someone else. But if you believe she's sincerely remorseful and not tempted to repeat the offense, then focus on finding a way to forgive: it will change the way she sees you and will change the way you see life.
Tell her you want a nice young girl to play with and see what she says
Get rid of the stupid bitch, you don't have kids, there are many women , she is an idiot fuck face . If you stay with her you are a idiot . And wait to enter into another relationship . Women of today are just like men , bastards and sluts , you can damn well bet she will do it again , those tears are all for you and fake . Pussy is everywhere, she is a whore, let her have her fun and say good by stupid bitch , go fuck your brains out . For sure she does not want or respect you , she will fuck anyone , and you are sucker . It has nothing to do with the graphic shit, no one cares, it is she is pure stupid and you are too if you do not say good by bitch .
You said you fuck her a lot so let her have her young fuck and she can tell you all about their fucks, it will improve your sex life. She is clearly an easy fuck and had lots of others, take her to a swingers club and enjoy. My husband got me into swinging it great but its him I love. Jane X
Jane is totally correct. Do exactly what she says. EXACTLY!
yep. consider yourself lucky to be married to such a hot piece of ass and let her have her fun.