I need a girls opinion

Ok, so I kind of have a little bit of history with this girl. We have talked a couple times in the past but never dated. I like her but I don't know if I would ever date her. Anyways yesterday I through a party and a bunch of people were upstairs watching The Conjuring. I sat beside her on the couch and after it stated to get scary she was rapped around me. Anyways we were holding hands and after a while one of my friend came and sat on the other side of her. After a couple more scary parts and what not she was holding on to his arm to. And I started to get a little pissed off. Then as it continued I looked back after a while and he was holding her hand. So basically she is holding my hand curled up with me and his hand. Now I am a attractive guy and the other guy is a good looking guy and I'm every aspect is better than me. So I don't really blame her but still. She was holding both of our hands and after the movie she was flirting with him and at that point I was just crazy pisses off. I could really use a girls input to explain to me what just happened. And is this a normal thing

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  • Not sure I would go as far to say that you are in love with her as the commenter did. As you said you barely know her. Maybe like is more accurate. But what you're feeling is jealousy and it is normal. It's nice when someone pays attention to you or flirts with you. And it hurts when it's taken away or showered upon someone else. You want to know that she was holding your hand, and your hand only and that it meant something. I'm not sure if there is huge meaning to her holding two guys hands while watching a scary movie. You don't say if she was chatting either one of you up or what others in the room were doing. Basically you guys were watching a movie and the other guy took the opportunity that you really didn't. If you really like her, ask her out and see where it goes. Otherwise, there will be other girls to hold their hands with and you won't have to play this guessing game.

  • I am a 25 yo female and if you want my opinion...it obvious to me that you love her...and maybe she was curled up with you because she doesnt feel like you would ever cross that point with her so she feels comfy with you and she might actually like that other guy...to me, i think you need to think hard if you could see your life the same with out her if the answer is no...than you need to tell her how you really feel which is that you love her (the ONLY reason you would get mad)and see what happens!!!

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