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I hate sex
I hate sex. I have been in several terrible relationships and kicked my lazy ass, impotent husband to the curb ten months ago. I went through Stage 3C breast cancer, had both breasts removed, had chemo, radiation and my ovaries removed. Through all that my husband still wouldn't get a job. I also take tamoxifin which has basically turned me into a female eunuch. I have very little desire for sex and when I do have intercourse it hurts a lot. I like men and want to have a relationship, but I don't want to have sex. It is just a chore for me and not worth putting up with to be with a man.
Most any man would want some sort of sexual relationship with you if he had a relationship with you. If vaginal sex is too uncomfortable for you there's anal, oral, and manual stimulation. If you aren't willing to have some sort of sexual relationship with a man, you can still probably find some one, but that will be a much lower quality guy, and be more likely to be someone who won't get a job, or who has some other serious impairment.
Or you can remain alone. The choice is yours.
There are plenty of impotent men who have good jobs or pensions and cannot have intercourse anyway. They might want manual stimulation for sexual release and prostrate health, but I think most of these men are looking for a woman will love them and understand them they way they are. They want to be respected and not in a cuckolding relationship.
That's really unfortunate. You're not a eunuch, you just have a medical challenge right now. You may meet someone that makes you want to feel desire again and take a hormonal therapy. Just know that you're not alone. Almost everyone has a friend or family member affected by breast cancer. Keep your chin up!