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First time sex
This story shouldn't even be under sex. It should be under embarrassing. But whatever. I need to tell someone.
So after we both agreed that we wanted to, I went over to his house at 11(am), (perfect timing really because school got cancelled that day because of weather and his parents were at work) and at first we just awkwardly hung out in his room, but then he took off his shirt and stared to kiss me. The "stripping down process" went on for another 10 minutes, then he took off his boxers, grab the condom and ripped it open with his teeth (which made me uncomfortable because what if it got a whole in it or something) and then put it on and started. He went really slow for me and it kinda hurt. He was nice about it, but it was reallllly awkward because i suced so much..
I know it usually hurts a little or there's a stingy pain Christian girls experience the first time they give themselves, their virginities, their Christian innocences to their boyfriends.
I agree with the sensible Anon. Keep your chin up! All first times are awkward and a little tense. You're not born an expert at sex. You get more comfortable when you're a little more familiar with each other. Don't be put off by the experience.
Also, tell him to stop ripping the packet with his teeth! There's a big chance that it could damage the condom inside and that's something you don't need to be worrying about when you're trying to enjoy yourself!
Dont worry, its totally normal for first times sex to be awkward or even painful. thats how it is for most people. if you love him and he loves you then keep having sex and you'll both get better at it. good luck!
Poota