I think i made a mistake
There is a guy I've casually had sex with once, and since then we've decided to do the domiant/submissive thing under consent just as sex partners though, nothing else. I can't tell you how hot it is and the thought of it turns me on so much. Thing is he is too emotionally distant and i feel he is the type to get abusive. I don't know though, but the one time sexual encounter and the dirty talking is unbelievable! He calls me his slut and does not want me sleeping with other guys. Aren't you allowed to have sex with other people when you're just sex buddies? I don't know maybe I've jumped into this too soon...
If you're just playing around, he's probably living the entire fantasy when he's with you so he acts like he doesn't want you to do anything without his control. But you can't get mad if he's just not that into you. After all you started a just sex relationship so if he doesn't give you more, you can't complain about it.
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