Open relationship? No.

For the last month I've been dating a guy who is 26 (I'm 25). I have the long-term relationship leading to marriage bug. My feelers are out for a prince charming. Many of my female friends have met great guys and have gotten married, and I want that for me too. He had a good profile for what I'm looking for (or so I thought), including being gorgeous looking with a good job.

My boyfriend rents a big house with one of his coworkers. His coworker is 24. It was slightly weird that my boyfriend has a roommate at his age. He said it is only because the house is killer and expensive, but it is better than an apartment. Okay. The house is nice and huge, and certainly nicer than my one-bedroom apartment. He said he wants to buy it in a couple of years after he gets a couple of promotions.

My boyfriend and I are not living together. We're still too new, but I spent a weekend over at his place. I was staying over and my boyfriend said his roommate was there with a couple of his roommate's female friends. He said we could meet and have dinner. I didn't have a problem with that.

His roommate was a nice guy. Good looking too. He was fit and toned, with a handsome face, although he was a little short, maybe 5'6" or so. I asked him if either of the girls there were his girlfriend, and he said, "No. They are just friends." The girls were nice too, but there was something a little "off" about them, although I couldn't put my finger on it. They said they knew one another from a prior job they had a few years earlier. The girls were attractive too. I'm not into women, but one knows good looks when one sees them. One was a tall, flat-chested, leggy blonde and the other a pretty brunette a little taller than me but with tits. I look good too, as I'm 5'2", athletic, and blonde. I played soccer in college and still keep super fit. We all looked good, so I wasn't really envious of anything. (And I know well how women can sometimes be competitive and prickly around one another when they are attractive and hanging around your guy.)

We had a nice time socializing. We had drinks, dinner, and the five of us talked about maybe going out to a club or movie later. My boyfriend pulled me aside, though, and asked me something weird. He asked if I thought his roommate was attractive. I said yes, but in a normal way. He said he and the other girls were up for sex with us, if it was okay with me.

Red fucking flag. What? My boyfriend said he would be okay with me screwing his roommate (he said he was hot for me) while he fucked the leggy blonde (I learned she was hot for him, and he for her). He said the brunette wanted to play with anyone. He said his heart would only be for me.

Oh no. Hard stop. My boyfriend also said he was down for an open relationship and thought it would be fun. Oh, no, please. I knew we were going to break up right then and there, although we had only been together for a month and I had hope for us. I can't handle that mindset. Not from my angle of the relationship. It was over.

Yet I told my boyfriend that I'd "try it out" without telling him we were done. I had to see his response, if anything. I was curious. We joined the others and undressed to play. I sucked his roommate's dick while the other two girls started a threeway with my boyfriend. I started fucking his roommate reverse cowgirl while I watched the others. My boyfriend wanted to take the leggy blonde to another room. I said, "No, you don't. If you want an open relationship, I want you to see it." He stayed. I think he may have known I had an issue, but not totally.

I fucked his roommate, and he fucked the other two girls. The brunette then came over and joined me and the roommate, but I didn't play with her much. I didn't want to. She gave me good head on my clit while I rode the roommate, though. Orgasms aplenty on my end.

Afterwards my boyfriend drove me home to my apartment and acted like we did the coolest thing ever. I asked him, "So you want to do this again together?" He said, "Absolutely, yes!" I replied, "Then don't ever call me again. Good luck."

I'm fucking done with him. It breaks my heart, because I thought he was going to be a good one.

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TL,DR: I ended a relationship when my boyfriend asked it to be open. I also fucked his roommate before cutting the cord.

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