Masturbation fantasies.
My wife and I needed some spark in the bedroom like many other couples that have been married for years. ( Over 22 for us).
She refuses to try a 3some. We tried blindfolds and bondage. Not really our thing. However we have many toys.
While I was away on a 12 day trip, we tried phone sex. At first it was a bit awkward. For me admitting I was jerking off while listening to my wife was odd, but as I heard her start to moan with her orgasm it got hotter.
I found hearing my own wife have an orgasm was a turn on, especially while she was using a dildo or vibrator on herself. Then when I was brave enough to tell her how I was masturbating it got more exciting. We both had orgasms.
The next night we decided to try it again and she was open and descriptive about what toy she was using and how it felt. She asked me if i was stroking my cock and I admitted that I was. She asked me to describe how I was stroking, how it felt and if she was there where I wanted to cum on her. She urged me to cum and I told her to fuck her pussy with her big pink dildo and imagine it was someone other than me. She was panting. I was stroking. We urged each other to cum. She had a gasping wailing orgasm and hearing it made me erupt and shoot harder than I had in years. She sent me a pic of her dildo all slick and shiny with some of her cream on it. I sent her a pic of my cum on a towel.
This open communication about our desires and exchange of details of what we were doing to our bodies was incredibly sexy. We both admitted that we had great orgasms.
Now even when we both are home we sometimes call each other and masturbate in different rooms. The excitement grows and the benefit is we both get so excited that then we can actually get together and fuck and suck like porn stars. Our sex life is better than it has been since we got married.
Do any other couples do anything like this?
Yes, when I would be gone for several days, my wife liked for me to go to an adult arcade and get a guy to suck my cock through a glory hole then tell her about it over the phone.
She would masturbate and cum loudly.
Then when I was home we would go to adult theaters and she would masturbate as she watched me get my cock sucked by other guys.
I got a Motor Bunny sex machine, for my wife. She rides it orgasms every time. We have been married twenty years, kids in university. We're spicing it up now.
No we don't do anything like that