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Smoking for my husband
My husband has a smoking fetish. I don't smoke myself, but at his request I have occasionally smoked a cigarette or two during sex. Sometimes less, sometimes less often. In six months I smoked one pack of Marlboro Reds. Recently, however, I got scared, because the day after smoking I felt bad and wanted to smoke. I didn't do it, but I'm a little scared now. At the same time, my husband says that he loves it when I smoke, that he loves to kiss me and sniff me when he smells pipes from me. But I don't want to get addicted.... And at the same time I love that he idolizes me as he did then. Please give me some advice.
May 27
You are definitely at a turning point here. You need to have an honest conversation with your husband and let him know you can’t mess around with smoking anymore. The most you could do is some role play with a weed cigarette, or a fake cigarette.
I wouldn’t mention it to your husband until you get his reaction and his respect, but you could consider becoming a smoker. Think about your age and health and what the risks are.
My wife took cigarettes out of our love play for about a year. Then she started a new job and made friends with people who smoked, she had a few with them. Thought about it; smoked a few more.
Then she asked me what I thought. I said “Honey, make your own choice. I will support you either way. Within about a week, she was addicted from smoking with her friends. I love it, but she had to love it first
Just stop. If doing something makes you uncomfortable or frightened for your health, don't do it. His sexual pleasure isn't more important than your health and wellbeing. He needs to understand that. In fact, as a man, I would feel really awful asking a woman to do something that harms her health even if I really enjoyed it. He really needs to be considering your health and wellbeing or he's at best being self-centered and inconsiderate.
Hey! My wife did the same thing for me. Some people wouldn’t and I get that. But when she smoked her first cigarette she liked it. Before long I didn’t even have to ask her, she would light up and dangle the cigarette from her lips and take hands free drags as she rode me. I think if it’s something you like doing and your husband not only doesn’t mind but loves it… You’re with a man like me who goes wild when he sees a hot female smoking a cigarette. The cigarette would be like a magic wand should you become a full time smoker, he’d never ever take his eyes off of you. I hope this helps! Good luck miss.
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