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Confused about wife’s responses
Wife and I have been married 20 years, few years back she woke me and said she dreamt I made her have sex with a guy, I reached down and she was soaked. Had crazy sex. Flash forward months later I kept telling her I had dreams about a guy with us in bed. She never said yes or no. Was always what if you get jealous or I want more ? I told her it was about us and just sex no attachments. We’ve played with a dildo where we 69 as I used it on her drive her crazy and she even wanted to play with it few hours later where I slid it in her as I licked her pussy. After that she never wanted to use it again. The. Last week she mentioned she would t mind going to a sex club to watch. So question is what is she thinking ? Is she into exploring more or no? Help
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F/27 and my husband's 29.
She's might be interested in swinging/swapping. That's how my husband and I joined the lifestyle.
We've always been adventurous in the bedroom with roll-play. Before our first swap, our favorite fantasy, I was married & on a business trip at a hotel bar wearing a LBD. He was a total stranger and we'd agree to a ONS.
During Covid, we had no idea our neighbors, late 50s at the time, were swingers. They invited us over for a cookout because their friends canceled due to the pandemic. As it got dark, they lit a joint and asked us to swap. From that moment we were hooked and began swapping with them. As the pandemic ended, they invited us to a few swinger clubs and parties.
Do it, enjoy yourself
She needs more than you’re giving. Let her go and enjoy your reward when she gets back.
The problem is that you’re trying to understand a woman. They are inexplicable.
I believe that she has thought about it and wants to fuck some other guys. Has she had sex with other men before you? I'm sure that after she watched at a sex club she would want to be fucked. Hold off fucking her and soon someone else will, if that is what you want.