Bad timing for a relationship
I'm 26, single, and work as a nurse at a hospital. I make good money and I'm independent. I'm picky about who I date and with whom I get into relationships. Someday I will settle down and get married, have kids, and the whole thing, but right now is not the time.
The problem is that I've met a guy who is fantastic and I'm falling in love with him. He is head over heels for me. It was not planned, but just happened. He's educated, smart, attractive, and has a great job owning a lucrative business. I don't want to lose him, but I also didn't anticipate things getting so serious so quickly. I can sense the pressure from him to maybe marry. He's probably going to ask soon, and I don't know what to say.
I'm an extrovert and have a lot of friends. It keeps me plenty busy, so I never felt like being in a relationship was something I needed in recent years. I'm very attractive, so I have no shortage of suitors, either. I have many guy friends from work and I've fucked most of them when I feel like I need some sex. I get laid all of the time. I'm a happy girl in that regard.
I don't want to lose this guy, but I wish he would come back maybe in a couple of years or something. I'm not done getting my kicks and being free.
So just tell him you are not ready to settle down to fucking just one guy. That will solve the problem.