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She cheats anyways
My girlfriend and I have an arrangement. She gets all the cock she wants under the umbrella that were doing it as a couple. I sometimes get to join or watch. Sometimes she is on her own. But it's always us doing it together. She keeps me in the loop and always documents it all if I'm not there. We always discuss everything thing beforehand. I understand wanting something to yourself and doing things outside of your relationship. She also knows about my cheating fantasies.
Its a long story on how I found out but I know if twice she has gone outside of our agreement. It buns me out only in the way that I don't get to get off on it they way we usually do, but also turns me on that she couldn't help herself. She's very naughty.
When we started with this lifestyle my husband always knew what I was doing and who I was having sex with. But sometimes I just wanted to be private about certain guys for a while and not involve my husband I do feel like I was cheating on him.
Thats how it is with my wife too, we started out with having to always share info but these days she just fucks whoever she wants, whenever she wants, and I might find out about it ahead of time, after or not at all.
Yes I understand that totally. I just love the sharing
Don't freak out. My wife and I have had the same arrangement for over 30 years. It wasn't until two years ago that she told me that she had an additional secret sex affair that lasted three years with another man who we both knew. When I asked her why she kept it hidden from me, when I would have obviously given her permission. She just said that she wanted one for herself.
It's no big deal. If you are going to let your wife have sex with other men, let her have total control. Just love her.
She knows she can... But she hides these couple of times... She lost respect for you. You need to prepare yourself for a split. Seriously. Hope you can work through this because it sounds fun but... You need to protect yourself, some assets, your children... A partner in an open relationship should not be lying and hiding hookups. Be careful.