I'm not a virgin and lied to my bf

She's afraid her bf will leave her if he knew she has a slut history

My wife was definitely not a virgin when we started dating. I knew two guys that had fucked her and later on she told me that there had been six guys between her legs. She asked me if that was going to be a problem, and I told her that I liked that one of us was sexually experienced because I had been a virgin when we fucked for the first time.

Keep the secret. He doesn't need to know.

She needs to be honest with him.

True. Full disclosure is needed

It's rare for someone to remain a virgin until marriage these days. I'm 41, raised Catholic and attended Catholic school. I had anal only with my first 6 boyfriends.
I finally gave my v-card to a guy that I was engaged with. He knew how much I wanted it to happen on our honeymoon but I gave in. Well, we didn't get married. He was cheating with my best friend.
I ended up marrying my current husband. He didn't care I wasn't a virgin and we have 2 kids and a wonderful life.

It's hard to stay a virgin until marriage. It sounds like you've decide not to do things with your boyfriend until you're married.. you can keep the secret there's no reason for him to know the truth. It's not like you're cheating on him with other guys.

Kinda difficult to unring that bell.
Good luck with that lie.
I hope it works out for you.