Man ruined girl's life feels terrible
I am just a typical guy, and I had the pleasure of meeting a kind, sweet, and beautiful Taiwanese girl during my travels to Taiwan sometime before the pandemic.
When I met her, she was still in school and studying at university. We hit it off right away and became a ‘couple.’ I was smitten by her. Do you know the way these Taiwanese girls speak and act around you? It is super girly, cute and adorable. To me, it is uniquely different from the culture back home.
We spent a few nights together in Taiwan, and she even came over to find me a few months after I left Taiwan. We had a great time together. I introduced her to some friends and brought her home to see my family. I asked her to marry me a few months later, and she said yes. We were planning a future together, and I was the happiest man alive. Little did I know, I was about to make a grave mistake and destroy her life.
I started by playing her out and cheating on her with other women. I was so caught up in my desires that I didn’t think of the consequences of my actions. I was selfish, and I didn’t care how she felt. As a result, she started to become distant and depressed. She eventually left me and went back to Taiwan.
I forgot about her after she left until one of my friends, who was visiting Taiwan. He was patronising a hostess bar when he coincidentally met her. When the conversation changed to how I was doing, she shared with my friend that she was a broken woman when she arrived. She had lost all hope and had no idea what to do with her life. She had already quit school when she decided to marry me, and it was something that I did not know.
When she returned to Taiwan, she was alone and had no friends or family to whom she could turn. Heartbroken, she turned to the only thing that could provide her daily needs: companionship and money. She has entertained men at bars, nightclubs, and other leisure places. While doing this, she is paid by the bar owners and sometimes showered with tips and gifts from patrons, often leading to more intimate encounters. My friend admitted to booking her for the rest of his stay in Taiwan.
Although I was seething inside after he said that, I felt that I was the only one to be blamed. I can only imagine what she went through during this time in her life. I feel immense guilt and regret for what I have done to her. I destroyed her life and her dreams. I wish I could return them, but it’s too late. All I can do now is apologise and hope she will find happiness again.
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