I feel used and ashamed
I just got back into dating after my divorce and i had invited the guy over to my place to have some drinks. My daughter was suppossed to be out with her friends but she got cancelled on. He suggested he join us for a few drinks, which i was a bit relucant to do but ok fine. We all got quite intoxicated and he did get a little more hands on than i would have liked in front of my daughter. It got to a point when we were kissing each other and then he turned and kissed my daughter too. I was so in shock i didnt know what to do. He was reassuring but he kissed me again and I felt under his spell i let it happen. Things only escalated from there it got to a stage where thing got intimate and we were both either so drunk or desperate for male attention we allowed it to happen. I feel so ashamed I allowed this with my daughter and me.
Sep 24
You should have kicked him out when he kissed your daughter! his intentions were to get in her pants. Dump that sleaze now!
Shit happens.
I shared a post on here about something that happened that sounds very similar. I'm still having a hard time processing it. It turns me on...but also I feel guilt and shame not knowing how she feels. And not sure how to talk about it. I would be relieved if I knew it doesn't make her feel any negative feelings. I would even be open to exploring or experimenting with her if knew it turns her on as much it does me