Why do guys feel so entitled to ass?
I've been dating a guy for a couple of months. I met him at a party and we smoked some weed together and made a connection. We had sex and things deepened. We are both basically broke, as I'm a part-time barista and he does work for a temp agency. He asked me to move in to his studio apartment to save money by pooling rent and I did. Together we can pay the rent.
He had a friend over and I'd met him before. He was nice. We wanted to go out and do something fun, but we were broke so we stayed at home. The weather was broiling and we didn't have AC that worked well, so I was in a tank top and panties and we were running fans.
My boyfriend was high and said, "Are you up to get laid?" I said sure, thinking of sex with him, but he pointed at his friend. Okay, that was weird. He wanted me to fuck his friend.
I'm no prude, like sex, and his friend looked good and was nice. I was a little horny that day anyway so I told his friend sure, let's fuck.
There was no foreplay. I rubbed myself wet and he stroked himself hard and I got into doggy position, which is my favorite. He slipped it into my lower lips and he felt great--nice and hard, and his pace was smooth.
We were into it maybe a couple of minutes when without asking he pulled out and stuck his dick in my ass. WTF?!? You ask before you do ass. He said my ass looked too good, but WTF?!?! I had never done anal sex before and, really, you ask someone before you go there. Pussy is where a dick is supposed to go, but ass?!?
My ass is a one-way street, baby, and it's for taking a shit. It puckers up and feels mean when someone is driving on the wrong side of the road.
I jumped off of him and said if we were going to continue, there was no ass involved. But he acted like he didn't do anything wrong. Fuck that. You just can't fuck a person in the ass without permission. No way. I told him we were done, because I was upset. I also cut up the Pokemon cards that he brought over to trade to my boyfriend.
What makes ANYONE think it is okay to fuck someone in the ass without permission?
My first girlfriend when I was in high school, wouldn't even let me near her asshole. In college I had a girlfriend that would let me play with her asshole. I could rub it, lick it, tongue it, but not allowed to stick my fingers or anything else in it.
Now the girl I dated after college, and married, is definitely a freak when it comes to ass play and sex. In fact she prefers anal sex to vaginal sex.
I love a woman's ass but not if they aren't into it. No man should just feel he has the right to fuck your ass and you should have told him to leave for just taking you without permission.
I'm a guy and I agree with you. Not sure what the obsession is?
Of all my past ex-girlfriends, I only did anal with one because she initiate the conversation first.
Other than that, I prefer the pussy. Women seem more comfortable that way and tend to be more relaxed and let loose better.
You're right to walk away while you still could. Anal can cripple a bitch.
Did he get it all the way in your ass before you complained? Hmm
Either way, I'm a man and I think he was way out of bounds. You're already giving him your pussy, wasn't that good enough?
Honestly I prefer pussy over ass any day, so I don't get the anal fixation.
OP, you're right 100% and I'm a guy.
Its sounds like it did not hurt don't think it was your first time just saying.
Good for you!
I'm a man - but some men are P I G S!