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Wife wants a BBC...advice
Wife and I agreed to do something to spice up our sex life. We had a 3sum with another guy strictly MFM. we had a 3sum with a woman FFM. both were fun and we agreed we both want to do it again. Now my wife want a BBC. but the conversation was not so much he and I pleasing her like the 3sum with the guy. She is talking more like she just wants to fuck and suck a BBC and I can only watch. I enjoyed witnessing her pleasure when the other guy fucked her and was not jealous watching her suck his cock, but I was active in the occasion. I even enjoyed her withe the other woman. Of course I got time with her too, but the BBC thing seems to just be her and that black cock.
Should I allow her to go for it? I'm afraid that if I don't she will resent it forever. If I do I open myself up to a cuckold relationship and I don't want that either. Does anyone have any advice/ Please be realistic and honest.
I agree with the comment below about the obsession with BBS on this site. I mentioned in another post that I thought it was the taboo nature of it that is so titillating. Ohh, black man fucks white woman, in times past the black man was later lynched. Do black guys with a big cock fuck great? I'm sure they do. As do white guys. But there remains a taboo of black guy with white woman that is exciting. If you both love each other an just treat the sex with others as just that, sex with others. Then if she wants more random cocks, you should get more random pussy. I love meeting new girls for sex. I'm married, my wife has no interest in sex and I love it. Meeting new girls for sex is fun, one night stand or repeat arrangements, I love both. I love white girls, black girls, hispanic girls, asian girls. I love skinny, athletic, average. I love 18 year old, 20 somethings, and up. It's always fun meeting someone new and figuring out what you both like. You decide, sit and watch, or make it a 4some.
I you do make sure he been tested for any disease. Aids and other std are higher in the black community.
I will be honest with you and tell you the truth you have already started becoming a cuckold. I should know because I started out just like you having threesoms with my wife and watching other men fucking her and her sucking cock you opened up a door that's hard to close just like I did. My wife felt that it was okay to bring anyone she wanted into our bedroom after a while and once she started fucking black men it was to late to try to stop her. I became a cuckold with out realizing it and I have been living as a cuckold husband now for 20 years but I was the one who started this in the first place allowing the open sexual lifestyle because I enjoyed seeing her with other men. But on a good note we are still married today.
I don't know what the obsession is with BBC on this site. It's not that big of a deal! But society makes a big deal out of it.
The first time I had sex with a black guy was my freshman year in college 2022. To join a sorority now you have to have sex with a black athlete. That's the rule. I was hesitant at first because I'd only been with a 3 guys but I did it anyway. The other rule is we can only take black guys as dates to our socials.
I would be honest with her. The her being with a BBC and you just watching would open yourself up to a cuckold relationship, and you are not willing to do that. I wonder if she has already found the guy with a BBC and his condition is to make you a cuckold. I'd say that a 3some is all you're offering. Some might say that she's already shown you that she's willing to do whatever she wants and you've already gone too far in pleasing her. If her response is to tell you that she's going to have that BBC and you can be there to watch or not be there at all, you have your answer. That would show that marriage may be irreparably broken.