Not your average relationship

I met my wife at a get together one of my friends was having about 15 years ago. She was (and still is) a heavy flirt. We talked and she told me that she wasn't currently "attached" to anyone. I asked why and she said that her last boyfriend wasn't ok with what she believes in. I asked if she was talking about religion or politics. She said, "I don't believe in monogamy in the traditional sense of the word." I asked what she meant. She said, "I prefer to be sexually free. I don't believe that sex is cheating. It's just sex. I believe cheating is the emotional attachment to someone else." I said, "So you slept with someone else while you were with him and he wasn't ok with it?" She said, "Oh yeah. Several times. He only caught me the once. I wasn't hiding anything. He just happened to walk in on it." We had sex that night and exchanged numbers before going home.

We started dating. There were times that I'd go to her apartment to pick her up and she would tell me to just come on inside. She would be in some state of getting ready. Sometimes she would still be in the shower. Sometimes she would be getting dressed. I would find out later that there were several times that I came over to pick her up and she had just had sex with someone before I got there.

We were getting serious and had discussed marriage. She asked if I had ever been with a man. I admit I lied about my answer. Most women don't want to know that their significant other is bisexual. She said, "It doesn't bother me if you have. Honestly. This isn't some sort of test. I'm just curious about your apetites." I said, "Well, have you had sex with another woman?" She said, "Oh all the time. There are things that can only be enjoyed with another woman." I said, "Yeah, I can see that." She said, "Well, you still haven't answered my question." I said, "Yes, I've been with men." She said, "How long ago?" I said, "Since the last time I was with a man?" She said, "So it's been more than once?" I said, "Yeah. Last time was probably a week or so ago." She said, "You sure about that? You know Carrie? My friend?" I said, "Yeah." She said, "She and I had sex this morning. When we get married, she will be my matron of honor and we're going to have sex the night before the wedding. TBH, there will probably be a lot of sex. Carrie...a man, probably Steve. I want to be thoroughly fucked before I say I do." I said, "Ok. Sorry. I'm not used to being with a woman who isn't the jealous type. Last time was Monday (2 days prior)." She said, "See. It's ok. You have apetites I couldn't possibly hope to fulfill. It's ok. So, are you on top?" I said, "Actually no. I prefer being on bottom. If i'm going to penetrate, I'd rather it be with a woman." She said, "What do you like about it?" I said, "Honestly? I really like sucking dick. I like having a man suck my dick. Men suck dick better than women." She said, "Really? Well, I guess I'll have to suck your dick more until you change your mind." I said, "What if I never change my mind?" She said, "Then you'll be getting head A LOT."

We got married a year later. I had my bachelor party at my best man's house. A lot of drinking, playing pool, sports and a threesome with my best man, craig and one of the groomsmen Michael. During the wedding reception, stacy asked me, "Did you have fun last night?" I said, "Actually, yes, I did." She said, "Did you nut?" I said, "Twice!" She said, "Very nice. With a man or woman?" I said, "Only woman, I'm interested in is you." She said, "I appreciate that but at some point there's going to be a woman that's into you and you will be into her and when that time comes, I want you to fuck her." I said, "I love you babe." She said, "I love you too. I say that because sex is just sex. We all get urges. We all get cravings. Just know that I will absolutely have sex with other men but you are my husband."

She was right. We've been married 13 years. I've had sex with 3 other women during that time. All were coworkers. First one was about 3 years into our marriage. She didn't know I was married. We had sex like 2-3 times a week for about 6 months. We broke it off because she wanted a relationship and I told her I was married and happily married. It broke her brain. She said, "If you are happily married, then why have sex with me?" I said, "Because you are a very nice person. You are funny and you are gorgeous." Second one was about a year later. She had broken up with her boyfriend and I was her rebound. She and I had sex like 24 times in 4 months. She ended up getting back with her boyfriend. The last one was about 2 years ago. She and I have been having sex once or twice a week ever since. She knows I'm married. She knows that Stacy knows. She has no intention on wanting me to divorce Stacy. Stacy and she have met. We've done threesomes on occasion and stacy has had sex with her solo several times.

As far as men, I've had a steady gay partner for 8 years. He and I get together a couple times a week. I'll never be straight. There is something about being with a man that gets my cock so hard. I've sucked a lot of dick but I've only let 3 men fuck me. I don't do random encounters. If I'm going to have full on sex, it's going to be with someone that's safe and clean and will be with just me. That's why I've been with Jeremy so long. He and I hang out a lot. We have a lot in common. We play video games together. We are in a relationship of sorts. There isn't an emotional connection but I don't think I could ever be emotionally attached to another man.

Stacy has had sex with 8 men that i'm aware of. I'm sure there are more. She's been fucking her boss a few times a month for the past 6 years. He's married and his wife doesn't know but she's a prude and withholds sex and uses it as a weapon. He likes to do it at our house. Stacy says that he thinks she is cheating on me and they are having a secret love affair. We have cameras throughout the house and she tells me when it happens and that i'm free to watch whenever. She's only been with 2 women and both have been very long term. She was with Carrie for a couple years before we met and was still with her for about 3 years into our marriage. They split up because Carrie said she was in love with her and Stacy said that she would have to be ok with me.

Carrie came back into the picture about 3 years ago. Stacy told me that she missed Carrie and wanted her back. I asked if she loved her. She didn't answer right away because of one of the conditions of cheating we set all those years ago. I told her if she was in love with her that i'm fine with it. She said, "That's why I love you so much. Yes, I am in love with her." They started talking again. She had Carrie over and we had dinner and drinks. She told Carrie that she was in love with her and that she wanted to marry her. Carrie said, "I'm confused. What about Jim?" Stacy said, "I don't want to divorce him. I still love him too." She said, "So, what, a threeway marriage?" Stacy said, "If you're ok that. Or could be I'm married to you AND him and keep it like that." Carrie said, "I'll never find another relationship like this even if I tried." She looked at me and said, "I haven't been with a man in 20 years. You'll have to go slow with me. I love Stacy and so I love you too."

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