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Shy about my body
Im 48 years married woman. I always feel shy about my changing body and I want to learn to be more comfortable with my weight gain and looks. After having children and right up to in my mid forty’s I have been a size 12 with a nice figure 160pds. Age and menopause has pushed me up to a size 18. I weigh 248 pounds My husband loves the changes and he always makes me feel beautiful. In fact I would say our sex life is the best it’s ever been, he makes me feel free and comfortable with my body in the bedroom.
It’s just that I feel insecure in a public or family setting…
I used to wear Bikinis and skinny jeans and shorts and as my weight crept up I started to cover up, even trying things like spanks to try to disguise my belly. Wearing long maxi dresses and one piece swimsuits with a skirt to hid my cellulite thighs and growing behind. I always worry what people think. More and more recently Ive noticed a lot of woman around my size and weight are wearing what ever the hell they like and not caring what people think, I admire them so much! I want this. I’d love nothing more than to wear a bikini again and short shorts and feel free with my body, but I worry people will talk about me behind my back and laugh at how I look in a bikini and stuff. why can’t I get past my insecurities?
I think that you need to concentrate on being yourself, love yourself and accept yourself so others can accept you and love you the way you are.
Yea ,your just a big voluptuous woman , and I bet your beautiful love yourself and set yourself free .
I’m 49 and I’ve always been insecure about my big boobs and huge nipples but after getting persuaded to go topless on holiday it changed everything I love showing my boobs now
You don't need to cover up. All women are beautiful no matter what size or shape they are. My wife also put on weight as she got older and I found her every bit as sexy as when she was younger. We've seen all sizes and shapes of women because we are nudists and all of them are beautiful.
Don’t cover your curves, BBW women are the hottest! I don’t even glance at skinny chicks anymore! I’d love to see you in a pair of black leggings, I bet your thick thighs and wide ass look amazing! I would be so horny standing behind you at the check out counter. I would t take my eyes off your beautiful figure. And I’d be fantasizing about what type of panties you were wearing underneath! Show it off, your too beautiful to hide your curves from the rest of the world!!
Why cover it up? Fat is the new hot. Go ahead and wear those skinny jeans, revealing tops, and bikinis. Fat chicks are super hot. My wife is younger than you and she's 5'4" and weighs 485lbs. She wears a 5x in most clothes and she wears her jeans and yoga pants like they are painted on and she has no problem letting her big gorgeous belly peak out from under her top. It drives me wild and she gets plenty of compliments from strangers who are into big women.