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Was I a prostitute?
I’m happily married today, 45, and my husband knows none of this.
When I was a sophmore in college my grandfather passed away unexpectedly. He and I were close but aside from the emotional grief I had another problem. He had been generously helping me with college tuition and other expenses. I worked too, which covered food and rent but my grampa paid for the tuition and most everything else. I did not want to leave college but did not have the time to work more in a conventional job.
Through a friend I learned there were men locally and in nearby towns who would pay generously for the company of a cute college co-ed. I was very nervous but was in a corner, and in my mind I considered it legitimate work…like housekeeping or massage or something. And I rationalized that I was not a whore since I could leave college and not do this if I wanted.
So for the balance of my time in college I earned money for having sex with men. Most were hotel quickies or even car BJs. There was one older man who planned a two week vacation in the Bahamas during my winter break, and I went. Most of the men had a few things in common. 1. They were tired of sex with their wife or she was simply no longer interested; and 2. They wanted unconventional sex, like maybe s&m, or dressed as a CD, or role play. I got a lot of mileage out of my little french maid outfit…lol. I’ll admit I learned a lot and my husband certainly benefits. If he only knew.
I don’t know why it has suddenly started bothering me. Maybe since I now have kids in college. I know the answer, but tell me I wasn’t a prostitute.
Yes you were a whore. Embrace it. Tell hubby and his cock will swell.
I am male, upper 60s, married. I have contacted many young women for sex. I'm sure some are in college, some are just girls making a living. Here is why I contact escorts.
1) I love sex with new girls
2) my wife doesn't give me enough, and lately none
3) I love the variety of sex I get by being with different girls.
4) I love the variety of bodies and ages I've been with. I have been with 18 year olds, lots of 20 somethings, many 30 somethings, a few 40s somethings, and one gal that is 75. I've been with white, black, hispanic, native american, asian, and mixed race.
5) I love sex, oh, wait, I already said that.
Don't let it bother you. It is just sex. I know some of the girls I've been with really really love sex. Some of them like the sex well enough but they need the money. Either way, it doesn't matter. It's your body to do with as you choose. Nobody owns your body but you, even a husband. If you wanted extra sex now with someone new, go for it. I don't know why society has this idea that sex has to be monogamous. For some, that is great, they only want 1 sex partner in their life, go for it. But don't make that decision for everyone. I for one am very glad there are lots of girls out there that will meet with a stranger, be naked within 30 seconds of meeting, and be fucking within 2 minutes of meeting. I hope you have great memories. I certainly have lots of great memories.
You were but move on we all have a pass. Throw it in the closet and lock the door and let it rest.