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Fun New Years party
I had talked to my wife about becoming a hot wife, which she totally rejected. It was like we were having any as she said just didn't find it exciting. That why I proposed sharing her.
Anyway we were hosting the New Years party. There were more than a few new people attending as our core group is is okay with bringing a friend. It isn't a swing party, in fact might consider it rather conservative, except we do like our alcohol.
It was after midnight, so we had a poker table that was busy, some girls were playing bridge, people playing pool.
I went up to the kitchen to get some mixers and I heard a muffled noise from the pantry, I thought oh my someone's getting some so I go to where I can spy and not get caught and low and behold it's the wife with one of the new guests, and she is gobbling down his cock with gusto. This from a woman that says she hates oral. He shoots in her mouth and she swallow it all, something she maintained she never does.
I thought I was gonna get caught cuz I did think, lucky the guy was some kind of stud as he pulled up the wife pulled up the dress and down the panties and started to plow her.
See all I needed and went back.
Now I asked her where she was and she said that she was a slob and had some punch spilled and she had to change. She is a real good liar but I guess she could read my face and said what you don't believe me and acted pissed and insulted.
Don't know what to do, cheating like that isn't like being a hotwife
Yeah - she'd not being a hot wife for you. She'd just getting HER desires met.
I'd confront her with what you witnessed. See what she does.
Things might just be over for you two - or just getting started up again!
My wife and I are in our late 40s kids are gone. We're still friends with a guy we grew up with from high school. His wife died back in 2016 from cancer and he never dated since. During the 2020 lockdown, he was over for dinner and we were watching a movie and drinking. He admitted it had been years since he last had sex. My wife said, 'that's terrible' she was complimenting him and telling him he has a lot of life left and live life. He told us a few stories where he tried talking to a woman but got rejected, slapped, screamed at and other stuff.
Being playful but also being serious. I stood up. Told them they should go have sex and I'm going to bed. My wife met me in the hall and said, 'are you serious?' I said why not? You've had your tubes tied and he's not been with a woman since J**. I assured her I trusted nothing would grow from this and it would just be sex. Something different for her too.
Since then, my wife started meet up once or twice a week for sex at his house.
There certainly a difference between sharing your wife, and cheating.
Sharing is a lifestyle choice, agreed upon by the both of you conversation and discussion and compromise, because sometimes both of you have to make concessions. Then you both have expectations of what they want.
Cheating on the other hand is selfish, it is appeals to the narcissistic individual, it only satisfies half of the relationship, and it certainly doesn’t foster cohesion.
I agree with you. Sharing is a win win for all parties involved. We've been married 8 years and dated 3 prior to that. I currently share my 33 year old wife and mother of our 4 year old with her boss.
My wife has worked for the same independent insurance guy since she was 20. It's just the two of them in a small strip mall office. He's 52 and lost his wife to Covid in 2020. They never had kids and don't know why. He went into a deep stage of depression. My wife was very worried so she had him over for dinner every night and as things opened back up we'd golf and he'd hang with me and my friends watching sports. He's a cool guy. After a year, my wife tried to set him up with some single female clients she knew that would be interested but he would decline. We both noticed he was getting depressed again. Over dinner he told us him and his wife used to go to Charleston each summer. I told my wife she should offer to go with him. She's on birth control but I hinted that as long as they used protection, I'm ok if 'it' happens. She acted shocked but also I could tell by her sly grin she wanted to. I also told her she would have to share some details with me. Long story, they booked the vacation and when she returned she confessed they had an amazing time. Seen some old sites, ate at nice restaurants and had amazing sex.
After that, she will have dinner with him at the country club one night a week. They started out having sex once or twice a week now it's a few time a month. Since this started, my wife has never denied me sex when I ask and things are more intense in the bedroom too. Things are not awkward between the three of us either. He actually thanked me while we were golfing one time.
That’s cool, now you just need to be there & watch and encourage them to do the things you’d like to see, maybe join in then so she can experience a nice 3-some (I did but not with a friend, my wife prefers stranger sex)