The Wife's new man

My wife and I have been in an open marriage for about a year. It started when she met a guy at a store she began to frequent. She would come home and tell me about the guy that she had met. I didn't pay it any mind at first. Yeah, you talked to a guy. Big deal. Then he mentioned a convention he was going to that my wife had always wanted to go to. She asked if I'd let her go with him. I mentioned that we didn't have the money for a hotel stay in the city it was in or a plane ticket. She said that she had frequent flyer miles she had unused that she could take. When I asked again about the hotel stay she at first didn't answer. Then she said, "Well, he offered to share a room." I said, "Two twins?" She said, "If I'm staying in a hotel with a man, specifically this man, it will be in the same bed."

I said, "So there would be sex involved?" She said, "I couldn't say for certain, but yes, I'd assume so." I didn't say anything. She said, "Would you be ok with that?" I said, "Well, the thought of watching you have sex with another man is kind of hot." She said, "Does this mean that you're ok with it?" I said, "In theory it's hot. But if I saw it I could go into a jealous rage and end up in prison. I honestly don't know how I would react until it happened."

She had sex with him that weekend and a few more times on her own. She didn't want to do it in front of me and there be any awkwardness. She begun a full fledged relationship with him. They did the things I didn't have time for or just wasn't interested in. They had sex probably 2-3 times a week. Sometimes at our house and I would watch and/or participate. Sometimes at his apartment. Sometimes when I was at work.

It was about 3 months of their relationship and sex when I made a move on her boyfriend. We were in a threesome and he was fucking her. He pulled out and I started sucking his dick. The wife saw me and didn't say anything. There was a few times when I would suck him hard before he would fuck her. Eventually the wife asked if I enjoyed sucking dick. In truth, I had been having sex (mainly oral) with other men for years without her knowledge. I responded, "I do actually. Didn't think I'd like it but I do." She said, "Well, I've been having sex with Bobby. It's only right that you get to have someone on the side as well." I reminded her that this wasn't the purpose of starting this whole new phase of our lives. I honestly want her to be sexually fulfilled. She was attracted to this other guy and rather that ask her to repress those feelings I encouraged her to act on them. I told her that in my eyes, cheating is doing something devious and behind the other's back. Being open and honest isn't cheating.

They were together for about 8 months when he got "an actual job." It was out of town and out of state. He asked her to go with him. She reminded him that she was married and her children are in school here and all of her family live here. They basically broke up the day he left. She was sad for a bit but she quickly got over it.

She said she wasn't going to actively seek another sex partner. Bobby was the result of perfect circumstances. Then about 3 weeks ago, she met another guy. Oddly enough he works at a similar shop that she met Bobby in. This time she waited until she had spoken to him a few times. With Bobby she asked permission to start flirting with him. She would say, "Are you ok with this?" I would reassure her. She was worried that I would get mad and we would fight. This time, she went ahead and started flirting when she realized that he was into her. She didn't make the first move but she went with it. She told him right away that she was married but her husband is into "swinging" and a lifestyle where she could date other men.

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