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No shows and ghosts
Why do so many people on sex personal sites represent that they are interested in actual sex but then either no-show or just ghost you once it comes down to when and where? Why can’t they just say they want sex fantasy chat or sex role play chat? I’d be up for that, but just say so. I’d say about 85% or more of people I try to make arrangements with just disappear. Even if it turns out there’s something in my stats they don’t like, just say sorry no thanks or thanks anyway or not my type. But don’t just stop replying. Have a little common courtesy. Very frustrating, disappointing and discouraging. Not to mention leaving me fucking horny!!!
We know the frustration. My bf and I have to mentally and emotionally prepare ourselves before meeting a new guy I'm going to fuck. Here we are encouraging and reassuring each other and the other person has no actual intentions. Or can't even have the decency of letting us know he changed his mind.
I have had my share of people ghosting. Plenty of girls or women tend to ghost, but those who actually show up tend to be into what ever talked about.
Probably scared of meeting up with someone who is a psycho or a sting. I had a buddy who went to "meet up" with a girl he had been talking to and it was the cops that busted him for soliciting a prostitute.
In my experience meeting up with men who want to suck and be fucked is pretty safe, but any "girl" is a fedboy or a trick. One girl I met up with ended up being a sissy that didn't want to admit they were a girl. They were so happy when I said I didn't care if they had a dick I just wanted to fuck. Best blowjob I've ever had. Had to pull his little mouth off me before I busted I nut so I could pound his ass.
Fantasy v/s reality. To discuss it is different than going along with it. I discuss fantasies but bolt when they wanna meet and shit. Fuvk all thr drama, I just wanna live in KY head space!
OP here. I totally get that. No issue at all. But would it kill someone to type “No Thanks”?