I tried bottom for my first time

I just recently discovered I'm bi, I've been hooking up but only as a top. Last weekend I decided to try bottom and right now I am regretting it. At the time it didn't really hurt it was more of just a full sensation and I actually really enjoyed it, it was great until the next morning, I was so sore! It's been 3 days and my butt is still sore, feels like he's still inside me. This sounds gross but when I fart I feel like I'm loose. I hope I don't become loose permanently. He's wanting to hook up again this weekend and I'm honestly not sure I'll be able to. I told him what's going on and he said it's normal and it'll be even better once I loosen up a little but that kind of worries me. Am I over thinking this?

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    • I purchased a small dildo (realistic) to prepare myself for an eventual partner. When I finally started meeting potential partners it turned out to be a good move. I really get off on hearing them enjoy themselves slapping against me with their hands on my hips !

    • Of course it will hurt the first time but trust me it gets a lot better over time. And you're ass will loosen up after a while once you learn how to relax yourself and enjoy being fucked. I find buttplugs very useful before sex they help open up my hole before getting fucked. The guy I am seeing now is 9 inches long and after he has fucked me I am back to normal in a day or so.

    • Sounds like you used a hard dildo and not a real cock. As big and as hard as a dick is you always recover after a few days. You get phantom dick when you fuck a bigger cock but that's only from your organs rearranging themselves back to normal

    • How fucking big was he? Your ass may be sore but it goes back to normal almost instantly exceot for a little pain. I've taken some pretty big guys and it takes about 4 to 7 days to feel normal, but nothing this dramatic! Ya might wanna see a doctor if he ripped you open! Did you bleed? Did yiu not use enough lubricant? Word of advice, lube, lube and more lube. Pre cum isn't enough lube to dilate you right. You may have ripped something. Go get checked out.

    • I'm back to normal now, ty

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