Face Timing it !
I,m 73, divorced, retired, my partner/girlfriend is 67, she is divorced but still working. All her 4 children have moved out so she sold her house and moved to an apartment near her work with another lady. Time together is rare because of the hours she works, all weekend but has her days off during the week. We communicate using Video Chat on our phones, usually before she goes to bed so for the most part, all we do is watch each other masturbate. She needs to be stimulated orally for her to orgasm, but masturbating with a dildo or vibrator will work but it takes time, me on the other hand, I will get an erection and cum easily. So mutual masturbation is what we do, just seeing her wet, hairy pussy will do it for me, using her 12 inch dildo will do it for her. I,m trying to convince her to talk to her friend and see if her friend is willing to join her. One can only hope !
Watching new people or a friend cod be exciting .