WI see my hubby different no
We are in our forties, married fifteen years, good marriage, last week there was a story in newspapers about sports star and girl friend, she said he was abusive, but they played sex games and he used a paddle. two days later my husband came home with a hairbrush, said he was going to spank me, and to take my jeans and knickers off and go over his knees, I was shocked, I asked why, he said just do it, so I did, and he spanked me. It really really hurt. But next morning, I just looked at him differently, before he went to work I gave him the biggest kiss I've given him for years, and I did the same when he came home. I don't understand it, but I just see him different now, I seem to look up to him, respect him more.
We are in our early thirties and spanking has enhanced our sex life enormously. We had gotten into a bit of a rut and decided together that we should give it a try. He's always loved my bum, so spanking seemed a logical route to go down. I must emphasise that it's recreational and not disciplinary, although we do act out 'discipline' scenarios. He administers only a light spanking with his hand, a slipper or a hairbrush as I don't have a high pain threshold and it's more about the adoption of humiliating positions than actual pain.
A couple of nights ago, he came in from work and 'ordered' me to strip while he remained fully clothed. He then bent me over the back of a kitchen chair with my bare bum sticking out and delivered a dozen or so whacks with a wooden hairbrush. I then had to to cook dinner wearing just an apron so my pink bum remained on display throughout. Payback came a couple of hours later with a wonderful doggy style fuck on the sofa.
My husband spanked me when I was being a shit! I wasn't expecting it and I admit I was pushing him. I needed it. I was being rude not just to him but others. We discussed the punishment afterwards and what was expected. Just a look from him gets my mind right now. I was mad At first when it happened but realize I was out of control and he keeps me in line. I love him so much. It was almost 23 years ago. Will be married for 25 in September. I'm not saying abuse is correct but I needed a punishment and was really asking for it. it is the only time he laid a hand on me.
That's so romantic