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I Love My Wife and...
...I will never leave her but, my libido is much more active than hers. We are both in our sixties and I know a lot of folks our age are pretty much done with sex at this point. Not me. Our sex life has slowed down considerably over the past six or seven years. Not so long ago we would be getting it on almost every night. Now I masturbate on a nearly daily basis to relieve my sexual tension.
I wish I could find a f--ck buddy that just wants the same, no commitment, no expectations, just an occasional roll in the hay to satisfy our needs.
I’m divorced from a near sexless woman who viewed almost anything I suggested doing as “perverted”. Now I’m having a lot of sex and realize how important it is to me. Way more than I even realized. Somehow we’ve been conditioned to believe we’re bad for wanting lots of sex. Fuck that. Everyone is different. You need to figure out how to get not just pleasured but satisfied and fulfilled sexually, and on a regular basis.
Feel ya'
31 yr marriage to a woman 8 yrs younger. She flirted, showed off her lovely body in mini skirts at the zoo, wore tight white short-shorts , thong PANTIES to sunbathe at the local lake (pretending they were a thong bathing suit) etc. and had a very sexy mind for fantasies in bed - reliving her best fucks before we met, and simply fucked me like crazy for the first 15 yrs. Then menopause! ....and her twin, now my sister, began laying next to me every night in what used to be our sexy bed...we used to call it "the scene of the crime!" and laugh in the morning.
. Her sex drive totally gone! I carry her bikini panties around. masturbate daily to memories of her. Every 2 or 3 years I try to gently bring up our lack of touching (she hasn't kissed me with her tongue in 15 years...or touched me below the waist.) She says it's OK for me to put my hands in her bikini panties at night....touch her very nice butt and legs - not so much her pussy or her equally nice breasts. That's a no go area.
"So after 15 yrs of not touching me - I'm to be celibate for the rest of my life?"
"Oh no honey...don't exaggerate...be patient with me."
15 years ....no tongue, no hands on my balls or dick - except my own..."Be patient!??".
I have the same problem mate.
Hate to say it but that is 100% grounds for divorce
Agreed! I divorced my ex-wife because she was not prepared to have sex any longer. Now remarried, to a woman four years older, who wants sex on a regular basis and gets it! If your wife won't let you fuck her, either get a mistress or get divorced.
Shit.... I feel your pain. Living in rural America finding a like minded fuck buddy is tough. Good luck.... To us both