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Scared to be with a woman.
My title says it all. I'm so scared to be with a woman. I just turned 20 years old and I'm still a virgin and probably will be for a long time. I like women and have always wanted to be intimate with one. I have kissed and like fooled around with one girl back when I was 17 but nothing more. I actually ejaculated inside my underwear afterwards. It was that intense. I masturbate a lot to keep from going totally crazy. The thing is I am afraid of being rejected. I have heard some horror stories about being laughed at and made fun of by women. You see I am pretty small. You'd think a guy who was 6Ft3in would have a bigger penis than 5.25 inches. I weigh 195 lbs. and fairly muscular. I have a nice six pack and a super tight round sexy ass. Quite a few women have commented about my ass. That makes me feel great. But to take off my clothes and then they see my small thin cock would just be horrible. I really couldn't stand to be rejected. I have wanted to be with a woman and make love so badly. A friend suggested I go to a professional out in Vegas for my first time. He said it might be helpful to be with someone who is getting paid and knows what they are doing. That and they probably wouldn't be too inclined to laugh at me since I'm paying them. I worry that if a woman were to comment about my size I would then not be able to get an erection at all. I so wish I was like about 3 or 4 inches shorter height wise and have that added to my cock. Yeah I would be fine if I was like 5'11" and 8-9 inches dick wise. Oh well I'm stuck being tall and having a small penis. I'll never get any pussy. If I do they will laugh at me.
I wonder how many guys end up turning gay because of such fears? "I can't please a woman, but I am obsessed with bigger cocks?"
If you only knew how much a majority of women don't give a FUCK about your dick size, you would probably be a serial rapist.
I am similarlily proportioned to you, and I made the mistake of having a threesome with a chick and my best friend. As we were all getting undressed we were standing with her in between us. Both of us were hard already, and as she reached out to grab both of us at the same time she started giggling at how small mine looked compared to his. She made us stand closer and ended up putting mine on his to show how much bigger, and then his on mine to make it disappear from sight. Other than that humiliating night, I have never had any complaints lol
Get over it, man. I had your same problem when I was younger. I wasn't very tall, but I was a good looking guy, blue eyes, blond hair, and pretty buff and tone from lifting weights all through high school. Unfortunately, I only had a 41/2 inch dick. Girls in high school were always wanting to go out with me, and I dated a few, but always broke up with them because I was self conscious about my small dick. Eventually, I got up the nerve to have sex with a girl I had dated for a while. It was the best thing ever. She did not laugh or make fun of my cock, she actually loved it and we dated for a couple of years. I shagged quite a few other girls after her, until I met my current wife. Never had any complaints. Just fucking go for it dude. The worst they can do is laugh, and if they do, who gives a fuck?.