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I Think My Wife is Cheating on Me
My wife and I have been married for 12 years and we're both just average, normal people in an average normal marriage. We've got two kids who are cute and well behaved, we do OK financially, we're not crazy, madly in love but we love each other. We've got a good life and probably a lot better than most.
Our sex life has always been OK, nothing amazing but good and she's OK, pretty hot but not what anyone would call beautiful. She's got a great body but she keeps that hidden most of the time so you just think she's average.
One night about a week ago she came out when I was watching football in a red bra and panties and she said.
"You wouldn't believe how much I want you to fuck me."
She said it in this really intense, crazy voice and I was shocked because she never talks like that. Never. She hardly ever swears and never says dirty things when we're having sex. So I didn't know what to do and she came over and sat on me and went after my cock. She literally dragged me into the bedroom by the cock.
She was like a crazy woman, talking the whole time, telling me what to do in very explicit language. She got me to do things to her I had never done before and things I would never have imagined her letting a man do to her and she did things to me that I had never imagined any woman doing to a man.
She totally freaked me out and ever since I have been avoiding her and she's been doing the same looking all embarrassed and ashamed.
I told my best mate and he said she's been fucking another guy for sure and he'd fucked her like the slut she is and she loved it. He says on the bright side you can do whatever you want to the slut now but on the down side you don't know how many other guys she's fucking.
So I don't know what to do.
What does it take away from you to have other men's cocks in your wife? Nothing. It is enjoyable for her, and you should be happy that SHE is happy. I would never consider telling my wife or daughters they shouldn't fuck other men, just because they are married.
She is becoming aware of her new sexuality. Do not be scared of it. My wife has been fucking other men for years and not now even watch. There is no woman that was put on this Earth to be monogamous with that pussy. They get hit on every day. You can accept it or you can move on but either way they are going to continue. Enjoy it with her
I remember the nights my ex would come home and get wild with me including taking loads in her mouth, suck on my balls, finger her own ass while taking her from behind, and other actions - all stuff she would never do on a regular basis. I later learned the driver behind this activity was her going out with her friends or sisters, getting fucked and coming home. I found out when her sister told me about what she was doing and how she would brag about me eating her after guys had cum inside her.
Good times - she is getting cock
Exactly the same thing happened with my wife after 14 years. I didn't suspect a thing though. I thought it was our second honeymoon. I bought her flowers and gifts and we went from having boring sex once a month to wild, crazy, kinky sex two and three times a day.
I called her at work one day and they said she was working from home. I didn't remember her telling me she was working from home but I thought I'd go home and surprise her.
I heard her when I put the key in the front door. Moaning and yelling like a whore. I stood there with a bunch of flowers in one hand and a rapidly softening erection. I thought maybe she was having a wank but nah it was too intense.
I went inside and found her bent over the dining table, the table we ate at with the kids being fucked up the ass by some guy I'd never seen before. She was stretched over the table holding onto the other side with both hands moaning and yelling.
That was the end of that.
She's embarrassed and ashamed because she's guilty about fucking some other guy. But that's not why you're avoiding her. You're avoiding her because you're afraid you're not going to measure up to your wife's new found sexuality.
You've got to decide if you love this woman and if you do, you need to come to terms with the fact that she's fucked some other guy or maybe more than one and you've got to double down on her and give her everything she wants sexually. If she loves you, she'll probably settle down in a year or two.
If you don't love her, kick her to the kerb and don't delay.
Good advice about kicking her to the curb. Don't listen to these limp-dick cucks who tell you to accept it. Get the fuck out.
But for the love of god send her my way LOL
Since she initiated all at once without asking you I would say she has either been watching porn or had an affair. If she has had an affair she may have been acting like that with him and he may have broken it off and now she is coming to you for her kicks.
She initiates and you freak? She gets wild and you avoid her afterwards?? Man some guys don’t deserve what they have!! Although I would be curious to know where it came from I would certainly take advantage of the new found wildness!!! I wouldn’t confront her about it or you might lose your chance at a more energetic wife especially if she is already acting embarrassed. But, I would think back and try to remember if you missed any cheating signs and keep your eyes open for more signs now! Good luck and give us an update!!
Bro time to man up . Maybe she did get it somewhere else put she wants to do it with you . You been vanilla to long let loose get your freak on . If not someone will with het
You’re been married 12 years? Yep she’s had a few dicks in her other than yours. Surprised you haven’t gotten a pussy on the side. By the way you’ve had sloppy seconds also. You may not have realized it. It took me a while to figure it out but I don’t mind it now. Kind of learned to enjoy my wife’s loose pussy from time to time. Especially when she tells me who and how she got fucked and asks me who I’ve fucked.
You're exactly right and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. Mine has been getting extra for 28 years and I have stayed monogamous I just love the idea for taking other big dick. I love feeling how loose she has become with other men. And now she tells me about all the fun
Yeah, your friend is definitely right.
Sadly, I think your friend is right. But man up and talk to her today!