How to get my wife comfortable with anal
I have always wanted to have anal with my wife. Once when we were really drunk I was able to fuck her in the ass, but neither of us remember it too much. I would really like to get her into it and see if she likes it, but she is too scared to try it and that I am too big to fit in her ass. She seems to like it when I am eating her and finger her ass, but then afterward she denies it. I think she just has some kind of mental block that holding her back from letting herself enjoy it.
Any ideas on how to get her comfortable with it?
This is from an earlier post of mine on anal... After enough foreplay to make her excited I put my woman in dogie and begin to massage her ass cheeks pushing them upwards. This allows her anus and her cunt gape slightly wider so that I could see a little hole opens between the gaping lips. I apply a dab of Vaseline in between the ass cheeks and into her anus as my cock begin to throb. I bring my cock slowly down until the head is aligned with the ass-hole and push my cock inward. As I do this, her tight sphincter seem to relax a little each time. First it is just the softer head of my cock slipped into her hole, then a little further until my cock slipped in bit by bit.
Slowly, I continue the pressure until my cock is balls deep in her ass, then slowly take it out. She breaths heavy and I feel her sphincter muscles pressing against my throbbing cock inside - the pressure on my cock is exquisite that no cunt ever could provide at all!! I manage to stop myself from cumming by stopping my movements for a few minutes and then increase the speed of my thrusting against her ass as she thrust back in synch of my movements - Yes, we become a synchronized thrashing machine as my cock pound her deeper and deeper expelling quenching sound out of her anal hole. I held her waist hard and then move one of my hands under her to find her erect clit to massage it. Tips: I prefer Vaseline as it lubrication lasts longer than water soluble lube or body lotion).
Give her some Molly. If that does not work, roofie her & fuck her ass. If she bitches about that, then find you a woman on the side who loves anal creampies.
When we first got married my wife would not let me fuck her ass she was to afraid that it would hurt her. One night she went out with her girlfriends and got drunk and ended up going home with a guy she was drunk enough to let him fuck her ass that's how she found out how much she liked it. To this day I wish I could shake his hand and thank him for fucking my wife because she's very open to all kinds of kinky sex now.
It's really great when another man gets our wives to do something that they won't do with us but after it is done they want us to do it.
Have her fuck your ass with a strap on, show her how easy it is to take it, then she will have to let you have a go pounding her ass.
That is how we started. I was trying to put my finger in her ass as I was fucking her from behind. She pull away looked at me and said "if you want to fuck my ass then I get to fuck you first." I was so horny I said ok. She must have been fantasizing about it because she pull a strap-on and lube out of her night stand. Put it on it was bigger than me in grith but about the same length.
She told me all the thing we tell them as she lube my ass and fingered me. Like to relaxe and it will only hurt for a minute. She pushed in the head. It hurt so much, and burned as she push it in and out. But it did stop quickly and she started to speed up. I started to feel it in my legs and my belly. The pleasure was so much better than anything I have ever felt before! She started to perk me off and I have my first anal orgasm. She pulled it out and I felt so empty. She was good to her word I got to fuck her ass and I lasted way longer than I would have she realized she really like get her ass fucked, as did I
I do a full body massage. Set the atmosphere, candles etc. Get a comfortable bed with towles andift to help push her ass up. Start feet legs back. Then I focus inside if legs, butt then anus. I useuly wear gloves and switch to a water based lubricant. The focus is to gently rim her with ine hand. Soft circles whike gentky tugging on the labia with a yoni massage technique.
After a bit you will feel the anus relax and her anus winks naturally. I take an anal lube applicator and gentky insert it apply and pull out.
Fout things can occur here depending on her preference. 1) I turn on a doubke bullet vibrator with cablr and replace my finger with the bullett her ass hole will wink and it slides in. Then I insert the companion into her pussy. She will roll over and I suck her clit or she massages her clit with her fibger.
2) Same as 1 but I enter her from behind instead of using the bullet in her pussy and sge use the bullet on her it
3) I use the bullet vibrator on her ass and when she winks I stick the vibrator in her pussy and mount her.
4) I insert a jewled butt plug and we stop. She is in a hightened state of arousal and will dress slutty. We go to a club and she uses a discrete vibrator to ger off in public.
Together watch some videos and read about anal sex (how to and what to do...). Once you know all about it, try - use Vaseline and stretch her anal passage using dildos, It works wonder in stretch work! Then go for actual penetration by your cock using enough lube. Enter slowly and when she feels comfortable with it, go deeper slowly, pause for several times till you get your cock deep into her. Now enjoy...
This is almost the exact process my wife and I used. We took nearly 6 months of preparation for our first trip alone post-baby. We watched videos, used fingers, then a dildo, and then "the tip" all before our trip. The first night of our trip, after an incredible dinner and wine, we finally had anal and she LOVED IT. We did it again the next day before lunch and that night after dinner.
Thank you. we are doing anal for nearly five years and enjoy it every time. It has become routine during those days of her periods.... She does not use dildos these days in her ass!
Watch an educational video maybe on the topic. Get her a plug and god lubricant to open hers little. Make her feel that it is perfectly normal to do it and no harm in trying few times and find out if she likes it.