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I hate to admit it...
...but...
I am married and have been for about 15 years. I have been faithful in that entire time. Something has changed recently, I have no idea what it is, but I get these overwhelming urges to fuck the shit out of some strange woman. To keep myself from getting in trouble, I have to masturbate several times.
I haven't acted on it but, fuck, this is driving me insane!
Maybe it's the insane summer heat of Virginia?
No joke it gets hot here and when I saw my neighbor and her boyfriend nude in her yard I wanted to go over and fuck and suck both of them but all I did was jerk my dick and hope they enjoyed the show as I came really hard.
It's difficult for me to weigh in on this because I have a sexually open relationship with my soulmate. Just don't tell her! That's the problem with stupid monogamy in the first place. It destroys what is completely natural in human sexuality. Show that you love her enough to deal with the confusion and guilt you may have on your own. As long as you can do that and whomever you're fucking is an informed, consenting adult, let the rest of your thinking be done by the other head and have a *uh hum* blast!
Same. Is it ever ok to act on it? If it’s just a fuck and nothing more?
Just don't ever tell her! Never, never, never tell the ole lady you've fucked around on her! It will hurt the both of you. Make up your mind to think with your dick. But suck that guilt the fuck up! Spare her those humiliating questions that will undoubtedly race through her mind like "Don't I satisfy him anymore?" "Am I losing my looks?" "Am I getting frigid?"I have never seen that type of honesty do any relationship any good!
Speaking of honesty, my ole lady knew that I wanted a sexually open relationship before I ever stuck anything into any part of her. We had all of those awkward conversations during our earliest dating. We are both Bi and Kink (DD D/s switches) so it's worked out fine for my soulmate and I!
I know what you mean. I am from Virginia.