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Husband is only attracted to fat women
No, this should be no surprise to me, since I've been around 300 pounds since I met met husband and he says I'm beautiful. But I find it odd he only likes fat women.
His celebrity crushes are Kelly Clarkson (when she's bigger), Aidy Bryant (big woman on SNL), Melissa McCarthy and Rebel Wilson when she was fat.
When I mention someone like Jennifer Aniston or Giselle or the Hadids or point out a thin, hit woman on the street he says, "Eh, not my type."
He admits to being an ass man, but denies being a "chubby chaser." But when we have sex he loves rubbing and kissing my big belly and saying how sexy it is. His favorite position is me on top because he loves my fat belly on his.
He also encourages me to wear bikinis and crop tops to show off my big belly (I'm 5 foot, 300 lbs, so it's big).
Is it weird I'm bothered by him only liking BBWs, even though I'm a big woman?
Just be happy that your husband loves you no matter how big you are. He might even want to make you bigger.
I'm sure there a few genuine chubby chasers but I believe most men don't like fat women. It's either them being insecure or the belief that fat women are easy. I happened to stay at a hotel that had a couple conventions going on. One of which was a Fat Acceptance group and the men that love them. I can assure you that I got more than my share of attention from the so-called fat admirers and I'm only 30-40 lbs overweight. Compared to the women at the conference I was a skinny mini and I had men falling over themselves to get my attention.
Bullshit. At any bbw event, the biggest, fattest most weight handicapped women always attract attention first. Its common knowledge that the bigger ones go the fastest, so pic one out and make your move... At one of those venues is where I met my wife. She was huge. Over 600lbs and every guy in the room (and there were a lot of them) was after her. She rolled in on her scooter and all heads turned. Many guys made a b-line right for her and she was mobbed you might say and overwhelmed with the attention. Later she told me that she was a veteran of BBW events and the situation was pretty much always the same... I made my move a little later and I was the lucky one to get a date probably because I didn't try to smother her and also we clicked almost immediately. The rest was history. She is gone now these past almost 12 years. Ovarian cancer took its toll. But she left me 2 beautiful children. Believe me when I say that lots of men like fat women. Some like myself, have the attitude "the fatter the better". It has nothing to do with insecurity and everything to do with actual preference for a specific body type. According to the fossil record it would appear that fat admiration has been around since pre-history and it certainly was with us in classical antiquity. It's a very normal part of the human condition and it's only in the last half century that it has garnered ridicule or disapproval.