Which is worse?
Ok so I've been in the adult business since 1998.
I met my wife in 2000. I got her involved in the adult scene shortly after meeting her doing mainly adult movies or modeling shoots and helping out with adult parties
6 years after that i stopped doing the party scene. My wife went off of the adult scene.
2007 I started doing shoots for escorts and models of which about 50% was interaction.
Between 2008 and 2012 my wife had about 5 affairs behind my back.
The question is what's worse, the affairs or my interaction in shoots.
My shoot is more like a job, I don't spend leisure with these females, unlike the wife is sleeping over night with a guy
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I say just carry on like normal. She needs a lot of sex and her affairs ensure she’s getting it. As her husband it’s your job to make sure she’s happy and this sounds like it makes her happy
While what she did is 'worse' by a hair, the hair is soo thin, that you two are splitting hairs. The key is you both are trotting the line of ending your marriage. At least you too are still together. Focus and preserving and restoring what you have