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Managing Sons' Masturbation Habits
We are a nudist family, we have a no covering up policy and a no shame policy. During warm weather no clothing is worn in or around the house. Nudity at home is basically compulsory, to include sleeping in the nude. Both of my sons have been aware of adult sexual activity from a very young age; they have joined me in the shower, and have seen my husband and I having sex. My sons have even observed myself - and other wives in our circle of friends - providing our husbands with impromptu handjobs and/or blowjobs, around the pool, at Superbowl parties, family movie night, etc. We let them know its a natural thing that adults do in and around the home, not for public places and situations. As my sons matured, on a few occasions I have encountered each of them while masturbating, but its always a spontaneous thing (2 or 3 times between the ages of 5 to 15); completely innocent, not a deliberate act of perversion. In order to deal with their natural urges and to manage the situation in a healthy manner, I suggested they masturbate at least twice a week (as pre-teens), and at least three or more times a week (as teenagers) in order to release pressure, relieve their natural urges and to stimulate healthy sperm production.
My sons never masturbated in front of me (or in front of family &/or friends) on any kind of regular basis, but they are not hesitant to do so whenever it suits them. When I am home, I try to maintain an awareness of when they are masturbating, not necessarily to watch them (which I admittedly have done once or twice - not an unpleasant thing to observe), but to prevent them from unintentionally masturbating in front of visitors or guests not accustomed to our ways.
Of course its not always possible to oversee all situations, and I have observed women from my circle of friends and acquaintances wrestling with their reactions to the unexpected sight of one or both of my sons walking into the room naked sporting hard, stiff erections and the women's reactions always seems to arouse my young men even further. Usually, if we have guests or visitors and either of the sons become aroused (always being nude it is clearly visible) they are expected to excuse themself to their room, close the door and stroke it off, and then return while still naked. The closed door is a signal that whomever is on the other side is masturbating, not to be disturbed. Apart from the closed door policy (for my son's masturbation requirements, on occasions when guests are present) the home rule is open doors at all times, even if one is masturbating or having full-on sex.
At other times, I am comfortable with my sons masturbating openly in my presence. Because we are always naked, we have an open policy on sexuality, especially when it comes to masturbation. It is not condemned, not scolded nor viewed as shameful. Masturbation is normal and healthy, whether done either openly or in private (preferable but completely optional). On the few occasions when I have encountered on or both of my sons masturbating in front of me, its quite a spontaneous thing for young me to do - much like young men masturbate openly in high school gym locker rooms, etc.
I do not as a rule encourage open masturbation, but I have never fussed nor scolded them for it, either. Although I have never confined them to privacy, its completely up to them.
Because we are always nude in and around the house, both my sons occasionally fondle &/or play with their penises - not purposefully or as in a structured masturbation activity, only as instinctive self-touching - often openly with myself present, and a few occasions in front of my girl friends, while watching their reactions. They never masturbate as exhibitionism or indulging in lustful or gratification purposes to gauge the reactions of people watching them as they masturbate, for some sort of self-indulgent purposes - that would not be healthy!
I normally never masturbate in front of my sons, instead I excuse myself to my room to attend to my needs. Only once or twice on or the other of them have accidentally walked in on me while I was busy pleasuring myself, to which I look up and ask them to please leave the room, I'll be with them when I'm finished.
It has never been a part of our family's nudist lifestyle to inhibit open masturbation in the presence of others; its really not that big a deal. I think my husband and I have handled the issue of masturbation and our son's overall sexual development in a healthy and open way.
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If you care about them you need to pump their young cocks. Massage and pull gently while squeezing their balls. You need to pump them firmly until they release their semen and the pressure in their balls is relieved. Let them suck on your nipples while you do this. A teenager will produce an incredible amount of cum. They will love you for it. You can also 69 with them and teach them how incredible a woman's loving mouth is as you show them how to pleasure you. It's good for them.
My mother controls my sons masturbation needs, always has when he needs relief he contacts her and she decides when she is going to give him a tug even if he has to wait for two or three days he will not touch himself, he's a good boy.
I also like my sons to masturbate regularly a 13 and 15 year old the young one masturbates at least twice a week with the elder at least four times they text me "Mum I am going to have a pull" or "Mum I am going to ANKEN" I sometimes go in to watch and at least once a week personally give each a nice wank my elder boy has a jar on his bedside table for his sperm I weigh it and write on his calendar either hand, leg or Mum and the weight I notice he always give a lot more when I do it.
All the best.
Poor boys leave them alone you bitch all you have to do is clean the sheets, undies and night wear, bet your hubby gets his rocks off down at the local whore house.
This actually stupid you don't know shit this probably the most stable way for family it's even a incest family that so fuck rare.
That is so terrific I used to personally masturbate my son from 13 to 19 when he left home he still comes to see me on a weekend just to have me do him he always says I am the best he is now 27 so usually he also gets a blowjob
Your such a great mother.