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I have a coworker that is a couple of years older than me that flirts with me pretty obviously when we are together, totally disregarding everyone around us. The problem is that he has been flirting with me for months, yet he’s married. He makes these innuendos when the two of us are alone together and is more serious with his interest in me, then does more of the childish teasing flirting as soon as anyone else is around. It has never gone far past gestures that could be described as innocent if anyone else were to find out, innuendos, and talk. Lately though he has been being more forward and physical with me, continuing to prove to me that he wants something to happen, despite his marriage, but they do not have a family nor want one. As bad as it sounds, I would be alright if something were to happen, nothing like dating but other things. It very much seems like he is trying to express what he wants without having to make the official first move in case things were to go south. The problem is just taking the leap and progressing it when both of us are scared to make the official first move in initiating it, even though it is very clear we both want it.
Are you currently in a relationship? I guess it doesn't matter.
If you're ok with his flirting, go ahead and see how far it will go.
When I was in my 20s, I was single and at a new job. An older married coworker was flirting with me. He was mid 40s, married with teenage kids. We started having sex and it went on for two years.
Neither of us wanted a relationship, he'd just meet at my apartment and we'd have sex.
He told me he wasn't getting any at home and I told him I wasn't either. LOL
We became good friends. His marriage was over and they were staying together until the kids graduated high school.
I liked our arrangement. Anytime I needed sex, I'd tell him to come by after work.
It is hard to start an affair with a coworker because one could be accused of sexual harrassment. If you are open to it, then flirt back, especially when you are alone so that he knows you are willing. You could even go so far as to suggesting having lunch together and then caress his leg under the table with your foot.
My wife had a boss and they flirted like crazy in the county govt office. He was engaged to a wealthy woman. My wife was young, sexy, blond, single and very sought after by the men downtown.
One day he had her alone in his office with the door closed....and he grabbed her butt with both hands while she stood near him. She peeled his hands off and left the room.....that night he phoned her at home - very obviously drunk. He blurted out, "Have you ever been butt fucked?"
She said, "Why?" ( I loved it, not, "Yes, no or maybe? but, "WHY?")
He hung up and was knocking on he apt door 30 mins later.
He came in pushed her against the wall and stuck his tongue in her mouth while he pawed at her teats and butt.
I said, "what did you do?"
She said, "well he's my boss at I want to keep my job with the State - so I knew I couldn't let him fuck me."
"Yeah, so....?"
"I gave him a stiff drink, and while he played with my naked breasts I pulled his pants down and sucked him off."
"Yeah...?"
"Yes, hell it took forever for him to cum in my mouth - he was so drunk. But he wouldn't let me stop. He kept saying 'you really want my cream don't you baby?'. I just nodded and kept working his balls and sucking. He finally squirted out a tiny little bit - but my lord how he howled when he did it!"
"At work the next Monday he was very afraid I would tell and ruin his marriage to that chubby wealthy girl. I was promoted to another office - and I see him a few times in the halls. BTW - I came to his wedding at his fiancée's invitation - just to let him know he needs to keep his mouth shut!"