Is it too many lovers

My wife and I were married when we were 25, she thinks she fucked about 30 men by that time. We've been married for 10 years now her number probably 40 or 45 now, She is great sexually partly due to learning from so many guys, We have somewhat of an open marriage we never make plans to have sex with anyone unless we are both aware of it, we very often have a threesum.

These days what numbers to high?By the time one these girls settles down she had gang bangs maybe had a couple bbc but won't admit it cause its taboo in there family . Or the girl you hook up with has 3 kids you got 2 who cares as long as she don't cheat in your relationship your good. The day she does well you know what happens there.

You are looking at this all wrong. The number of guys doesn’t matter. Well it shouldn’t matter.

What you should be looking at is your wife lied to you. Plain and simple.

She was embarrassed, felt ashamed, didn’t want you to think she was a slut. Whatever the reason she lied. She put her feelings ahead of yours.

Now you have possibly wasted years of your life with a woman who doesn’t care about you.

I know a girl blown 8 guys I know that's just people I know. Seen her with her new husband at the PTA . My mind was if you only new how many cocks she taken down her throat plus mine everyone I know she swallowed

The number of lovers before you is not that important (hopefully she learned something from each of them). The important number is the lovers after you became 'exclusive'. For me that number should be 0.

My wife had just four lovers before me. But she has had at least one every year that we have been married. That makes almost 50 men that have fucked her since we married 47 years ago.

Would like to discuss on a one to one about her 50 men.
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Doesn’t matter if the number is high or not. What matters is she lied.

Absolutely!!