Large penis isn’t great
There are a lot of stories of people looking for guys who are hung. I didn’t realize I was hung until after high school and was with an older woman. In high school I would try to have sex ending with either crying because of the pain or refusal. I was 19 and a neighbor lady had me helping her around the yard. She was a huge flirt and easily caused me to get hard. I’m a little over 11 long and very thick. She was the First Lady who was able to really take me to depth and enjoy it. We fucked a lot until she got divorced and moved away. I’ve even been refused by prostitutes not wanting to try - nothing worse then leaving with blue balls or being offer a hand job for cash. No thanks. So, guys wishing they had a huge dick - be careful of what you wish for. It can leave you lonely.
I'm 5'2" and 'dated' a basketball player in college. Yes he was African American.
The first time we had sex, OMG! I thought he was crazy huge. I was already wet but he gave me amazing oral. I got on top first and controlled the pace.
He took over after a few.
I'm around the same height and petite and the last guy I was with before getting married was big. It was a bit rough at first but got better the longer we dated. He left the state, (job) and I then met the man I married.
Are you still with him or was it short lived? The lady I was with when I was younger was incredible. I remember the first time, she enjoyed working my cock for a awhile before trying. She was wet and slowly able to go in with a single stroke - almost sloppy but incredible. It took a few times together before I could go hard but she, we loved it. The right sexual partner was not my life partner.
My mother would have disagreed with you. During our torrid 27-year love affair she would occasionally wonder aloud what it would be like to get fucked by someone larger than my 3 inches.
I grew tired of her saying that one day and abruptly challenged her to actively seek those men out.
Within 2 months she had a small circle of guys she would meet alternatively and come home giddy. She and I were still fucking like rabbits on a honeymoon.
One day I asked her why she didn’t just move in with one of them. She replied, “They can give me quantity but not the quality that a son brings to the bedroom for his mother.”
I cried for joy.
While she would be out with one of those others I sought out guys my own size and enjoyed the benefits of that with my mouth and asshole. I felt a little guilty going out behind her back like that.
How long before they kick you off again?
Who is “they” and kicked off what again?
Twenty-five years ago I had a an affair with a gal whose husband was large which she did not enjoy at all. She said it was usually quite painful with him. She loved my average size much better. They eventually divorced. Loved letting her ride me, it was like heaven plus she gave mind blowing blowjobs with swallow.
Almost the same story in the 80's. Swapping was big then -- about half the couples swapped. Sorta of handover from permissiveness young ladies of the 60s and 70s. My hot Wife Sally and I weren't in to it but it was always there. She said if Paul Newman wanted her she'd let me watch, take vid so she could enjoy it over and over. So she's not a saint, but has a high bar. Skinny dipping with our friends Linda and Bob. Holy fuck -- Bob has a fire hose. Sally, meet Paul Newman. Her eyes lit up, she wants that. She has an ex who was freak big and learned to love it after he solely broke in fun spot, using half at first. We never actually swapped, the 4 of us did old school cheating. Linda and I had a good idea they were fucking. She loves my smaller but bigger than average dick. Bot girls get As in Blowjob Class. Sidebar: Sally had a work friend Joan -- never have a BJ, scared she choke or fuck it up somehow. She meets a heartthrob -- she in competition. Sally gives her blowjob lessons using me and a cucumber.