Neighbor wife, great caretaker
I live alone, I am in my 60's and a widower. Last year in the Spring, I managed to cut my lower leg, it was just a scratch so I paid no attention to it. I should have, next thing I knew my leg was double size, red streaks clear up into my groin, I ended up in the hospital, tubes in me. I was there 28 days.
Sent home, they had a home health care nurse come by to check on me, but food and normal day to day stuff was really a problem.
My neighbor volunteered his wife to come over, do meals, clean up, get my meds and help me bathe. I could walk but barely, and once in the tub I could not get out without help, earlier I had gotten myself in there and ended up calling 911 to get me out, which is when my neighbor found out haw bad it was.
His wife is an overweight gal, maybe 50 or so, and very nice. The first couple of times she helped me in the tub I was using a towel to cover myself, finally she told me she had seen men before and not to worry about it so i didn't. She washed me everywhere, no qualms about the genitals at all, even though my arms worked fine. I just let her. Then feeling better, one day I got a hard on going, I apologized, she told me to relax, she would just help me with it and she did. I was shocked when she leaned down and finished me by sucking me off, but I also didn't mind all that much.
Now I am healed up to as good as I will get, she still comes over a couple of times a week. She told me her husband knows and doesn't care, since he is impotent. She is lots of fun, we progressed to full sex a couple of times a week. She sure is a great caretaker!