First, I am not into men but a hot transsexual woman is such a turn on. I have been with 10 TS escorts. I am only with TS escorts because regular TS's aren't typically good looking.
The first TS I sucked off was a small Asian girl who had the smallest of cocks, obviously on hormones. I have fucked 2 in the ass without a condom. That surprised me, that they let me. They just say "Don't cum in my ass." You can come in their mouth if you want. That is never a problem..
They loved to be fucked. I don't let them fuck me as that doesn't nothing for me. But I do suck their cock. It doesn't really do much for me but it's part of the deal. TS girls do give the best head. No doubt about that.
Asian and Hispanic TS girls are the best looking and generally have fantastic bodies. Don't be ashamed of your kink, it is fun.