Mom’s husband

I have been fucking my mom’s husband for about 3 years now. Now he wants me to breakup with my boyfriend and get on birth control.

4 months ago

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    • Love is so powerful. I recomened birth control until your mom is out of the picture. Maybe he should divorce her if incest is a concern. And it definately sounds like you should have ditched the boyfiend awhile ago. Best wishes and go with your heart.

    • Also written by a sick fat bald old virgin man!

    • 👆👆 Suck it bitches! This is gonna happen to every incest post.👆👆
      Every time you sick fucks post an incest story this is what you are gonna get!
      Get this through your fucking pee brains This won't stop sick bastards!

    • That makes him your step father by law idiot! Don't even start with this is not incest or shouldn't be incest. It is incest by law and thats to bad for you.

      A West Virginia man and his step-daughter busted having sex are facing prison for incest — even though they are not biologically related.
Kelcey Nicholas, 28, was caught sleeping with 21-year-old Lataura Jarrett on Sept. 19 at their Mount Nebo home in Nicholas County.
Officers were checking on Nicholas' previous home-confinement charge when they walked in to find the duo in bed.
Usually, the couple would not be prosecuted for the incident — as they aren't related by blood and both are over the age of consent.
But they are bizarrely facing as much as 15 years in prison after Sheriff David Hopkins cited state law that a daughter is the natural offspring of a person's husband or wife.
As Nicholas is still married to Jarrett's mother, he is technically her father.
The pair was charged with seven counts of incest, reports the Saturday Gazette-Mail.
Nicholas remains in jail while Jarrett was freed on bond. Both will appear in court for a preliminary hearing Thursday.

      Facing as much as 15 years in prison for incest!

    • Get this fact over 97% of incest involves a child!
      
1st. Father and daughter severely underaged!

      
2nd. Father and son severely underaged!

      
3rd. Adult male family member Grandfather, uncle, step parent involving a severely underage female child followed by a male child.

      
4th. Male sibling usually 5 plus years on the underage female child followed by a male child.
      Sibling experimentation is very rare except if one of the siblings is exposed to sex like being molested.

      
5th female adult incest with underage male child followed by female child


      6th Female sibling usually 7 years or more on underage male child followed by female child!
      Once again Sibling experimentation is very rare except if one of the siblings is exposed to sex like being molested.

      
Last and very very rare is mother or with underage male child followed by female child.

      
Child victims of incest, 25.6% of them had attempted suicide, 52.0% had suicidal ideation, and 23.6% have killed themself's! Major depressive disorder was the most common psychiatric diagnosis.

      

The remaining incest is adult incest involving adults is the lowest part of incest happening! Adult incest has its consequences to! 
Regret being number one especially if drugs or alcohol are involver at the time. Incest between adults have led to suicide or homicide mainly from fear of being caught! Mental conditions that range from suicide to homicide are part of incest.

      

Then there is pregnancy from incest! That too has caused murder because of false love syndrome. With a normal birth defect rate of around 4%, In non direct incest it jumps to 7% rate. In direct incest the birth defect rate skyrockets to 42%! Direct incest is incest between parents or grandparents-sibling sex. Non direct incest is 1st cousins and lower down the family tree.

    • Understanding and treating survivors of incest
      March 6, 2018

      Adults with histories of being abused as children present unique challenges for counselors. For instance, these clients often struggle with establishing and maintaining a therapeutic alliance. They may rapidly shift their notion of the counselor from very favorable to very unfavorable in line with concomitant shifts in their emotional states. Furthermore, they may anxiously expect the counselor to abandon them and thus increase pressure on the counselor to prove otherwise. Ironically, attempts at reassurance by the counselor may actually serve to validate these clients’ fears of abandonment.
      The motivating factor for many of these clients is mistrust of people in general — and often for good reason. This article explores the psychological and interpersonal aspect of child sexual abuse by a parent and its treatment, with a particular focus on its relationship to betrayal trauma, dissociation and complex trauma.
      Incest and its effects
      Child abuse of any kind by a parent is a particularly negative experience that often affects survivors to varying degrees throughout their lives. However, child sexual abuse committed by a parent or other relative — that is, incest — is associated with particularly severe psychological symptoms and physical injuries for many survivors. For example, survivors of father-daughter incest are more likely to report feeling depressed, damaged and psychologically injured than are survivors of other types of child abuse. They are also more likely to report being estranged from one or both parents and having been shamed by others when they tried to share their experience. Additional symptoms include low self-esteem, self-loathing, somatization, low self-efficacy, pervasive interpersonal difficulties and feelings of contamination, worthlessness, shame and helplessness..

    • One particularly damaging result of incest is trauma bonding, in which survivors incorporate the aberrant views of their abusers about the incestuous relationship. As a result, victims frequently associate the abuse with a distorted form of caring and affection that later negatively influences their choice of romantic relationships. This can often lead to entering a series of abusive relationships.
      According to Christine Courtois (Healing the Incest Wound: Adult Survivors in Therapy) and Richard Kluft (“Ramifications of incest” in Psychiatric Times), greater symptom severity for incest survivors is associated with:
      * Longer duration of abuse
      * Frequent abuse episodes
      * Penetration
      * High degree of force, coercion and intimidation
      * Transgenerational incest
      * A male perpetrator
      * Closeness of the relationship
      * Passive or willing participation
      * Having an erotic response
      * Self-blame and shame
      * Observed or reported incest that continues
      * Parental blame and negative judgment
      * Failed institutional responses: shaming, blaming, ineffectual effort
      * Early childhood onset.

    • Early childhood onset
      Incest that begins at a young age and continues for protracted periods — the average length of incest abuse is four years — often results in avoidance-based coping skills (for example, avoidance of relationships and various dissociative phenomena). These trauma-forged coping skills form the foundation for present and future interpersonal interactions and often become first-line responses to all or most levels of distress-producing circumstances.
      More than any other type of child abuse, incest is associated with secrecy, betrayal, powerlessness, guilt, conflicted loyalty, fear of reprisal and self-blame/shame. It is of little surprise then that only 30 percent of incest cases are reported by survivors. The most reliable research suggests that 1 in 20 families with a female child have histories of father-daughter child sexual abuse, whereas 1 in 7 blended families with a female child have experienced stepfather-stepdaughter child sexual abuse (see the revised edition of The Secret Trauma: Incest in the Lives of Girls and Women by Diana E. H. Russell, published in 1999).
      In 1986, David Finkelhor, known for his work on child sexual abuse, indicated that among males who reported being sexually abused as children, 3 percent reported mother-son incest. However, most incest-related research has focused on father-daughter or stepfather-stepdaughter incest, which is the focus of this article!

    • Subsequent studies of incest survivors indicated that being eroticized early in life disrupted these individuals’ adult sexuality. In comparison with nonincest controls, survivors experienced sexual intercourse earlier, had more sex partners, were more likely to have casual sex with those outside of their primary relationships and were more likely to engage in sex for money. Thus, survivors of incest are at an increased risk for revictimization, often without a conscious realization that they are being abused. This issue often creates confusion for survivors because the line between involuntary and voluntary participation in sexual behavior is blurred.
      An article by Sandra Stroebel and colleagues, published in 2013 in Sexual Abuse: A Journal of Research and Treatment, indicates that risk factors for father-daughter incest include the following:
      * Exposure to parent verbal or physical violence
      * Families that accept father-daughter nudity
      * Families in which the mother never kisses or hugs her daughter (overt maternal affection was identified as a protective factor against father-daughter incest)
      * Families with an adult male other than the biological father in the home (i.e., a stepfather or substitute father figure).

    • Finally, some qualitative research notes that in limited cases, mothers with histories of being sexually abused as a child wittingly or unwittingly contribute to the causal chain of events leading to father-daughter incest. Furthermore, in cases in which a mother chooses the abuser over her daughter, the abandonment by the mother may have a greater negative impact on her daughter than did the abuse itself. This rejection not only reinforces the victim’s sense of worthlessness and shame but also suggests to her that she somehow “deserved” the abuse. As a result, revictimization often becomes the rule rather than the exception, a self-fulfilling prophecy that validates the victim’s sense of core unworthiness!

    • Beyond the physical and psychological harm caused by father-daughter incest, Courtois notes that the resulting family dynamics are characterized by:
      * Parent conflict
      * Contradicting messages
      * Triangulation (for example, parents aligned against the child or perpetrator parent-child alignment against the other parent)
      * Improper parent-child alliances within an atmosphere of denial and secrecy
      Furthermore, victims are less likely to receive support and protection due to family denial and loyalty than if the abuser were outside the family or a stranger. Together, these circumstances often create for survivors a distorted sense of self and distorted relationships with self and others. If the incest begins at an early age, survivors often develop an inherent sense of mistrust and danger that pervades and mediates their perceptions of relationships and the world as a whole.

      #THE REAL SIDE OF INCEST!

    • Birth control seems like a good idea, but why break up with your boyfriend?

    • Beyond the physical and psychological harm caused by father-daughter incest, Courtois notes that the resulting family dynamics are characterized by:
      * Parent conflict
      * Contradicting messages
      * Triangulation (for example, parents aligned against the child or perpetrator parent-child alignment against the other parent)
      * Improper parent-child alliances within an atmosphere of denial and secrecy
      Furthermore, victims are less likely to receive support and protection due to family denial and loyalty than if the abuser were outside the family or a stranger. Together, these circumstances often create for survivors a distorted sense of self and distorted relationships with self and others. If the incest begins at an early age, survivors often develop an inherent sense of mistrust and danger that pervades and mediates their perceptions of relationships and the world as a whole.

      #THE REAL SIDE OF INCEST.

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