Should I give in?
I have an older (much older) half sister from my dad's previous marriage. She's almost twice my age, I'm 23 and she's 41. We weren't very close before, and I don't want to get into the specifics of how it happened, I'll just say that her being recently divorced and my being broke led us both to sharing a roof with our father during the quarantine.
I had rarely socialized with her as a sister in such a day to day context before, so at first it was weird but made me realize a few things. First, that she's gorgeous. Second, that we have mad chemistry. We get along well, and over the last few months we started growing closer bit by bit, to the point that our father would go to bed and we could continue talking and drinking for hours and had a blast.
Blame isolation and accumulated horniness or whatever, but I began to feel seriously attracted to her, to the point of jerking off thinking of her. I know it's a morally grey but mostly black area, but I'm betting on the truthfulness on at least some of the success stories I've read here to seek advice, because I feel this may be reciprocal. I'm not sure if it was always this way and I just hadn't noticed, but it looks that she's being overtly more sexual towards me, being kinda flirty, leaving her room's door open while working out in tiny or tight outfits, letting herself be seen in just a towel. Her room is next to mine, and I'm pretty sure I've heard her masturbating for several nights now. I don't know if it's advisable to be more forward and risking making things VERY uncomfortable for the remainder of the quarantine. Even if I decided to give in, I'm not even sure how I would approach this... any suggestions?
OP here.
Wow... so many comments. Just wanted to come and say that I just let things slide and fall into place. One night not much longer after posting this, a chat over some wine turned sexual by her initiative. Less than an hour later we were making out on her bed. She was hesitant at first but we gave in and had sex for the first time. She's been on birth control for hormonal reasons, so we get to go bareback and it's INCREDIBLE.
Opportunities to fuck are hard to come by, though, as the house isn't exactly big and our father is a light sleeper unless he passes out from drinking, so we treat him to some beers often. It's well worth the trouble, though: I told her yesterday she's the best sex I've ever had and she says it's likewise. If you have the chance to be in an affair such as this, I highly recommend you go for it.
There is only one way to find out walk into her room at bedtime naked with a hard on, she will either invite you in or kick you out, you want to find out
I agree show her your dick
That may be a bit too forward but you never know! She is clearly interested.
If my sister wanted to have sex with me, I wouldn't hesitate! I've wanted to fuck my sister since she was a teenager. She is now 34 and given the opportunity I would fuck her brains out!
Do like Nike says...just do it, you'll only over think shit if you don't..plus she's only a half sister, soooo you're all good,I had a relationship with my twin, we have a son together and although we aren't together any more..I can honestly say that no relationship will ever match up to her..I still miss her..soooo..just do it!!!
Mate, yes I am Australian, On three separate occasions in my life I have had the chance to fuck 3 very nice women all married, I saw the signs just like you are getting and didn't act on them. Biggest regrets of my life. What she is doing suggest she wants you. Don't fuck up like I did.
If she can hear you masturbate in your room, moan her name. Or if you hear her go to her room and ask if she needs a hand. Get your face and cock in that girls pussy as soon as you can!
You are such a dork. Grow up. She needs a real man and not a coward like you.
I bet your dad is banging her while you are pondering what could be. Don’t be such a pussy. She doesn’t care about you. Nobody does sissy.
Start drinking with her and then tell her when you get drunk it’s like truth serum for you. From this point on you have a built in excuse- you were drunk, but don’t really get drunk. Then this is key- steer the conversation towards really hot sex and tell her you’d like to lick her asshole .
Like her asshole... tell her that you want her to lick your asshole. Then tell her that are gonna call daddy to help you take food care of her
Your not sure how to approach her its very simple but a bit extreme, show her your hard dick as if by accident, and you will know for sure
This is why you'll never have sex with your or anyone
I say go forward with an “innocent” approach. Leave your door open while you are changing after a shower. Let her see you half naked and see how she responds. If you notice her looking and acting interested then take the next step and maybe “accidentally” leave a door open while you are playing with your cock or not hear her walk up while you are stroking one out. Make sure you are naked and easily visible when she catches you. Then depending on how she responds take it from there.
I think that's the perverted and immature approach. This is where alot of people go wrong and see their efforts fail. Let me put it this way, you wouldn't be like this with other girls so why with your sister. If people want to have sex with their sisters, you have to have a plan and be smart about it. It should be a step by step approach like spending time together, flirting and being affectionate. Always be the person your sister can depend on. You have to push the boundaries a bit at a time.
I really think you should let her make the first serious move
Let me compliment you on a well-written post. But, let me caution you about moving forward with any sexual relations. It's something you can't undo and may cause a rift in the family dynamic during a really bad time in our world's history. It's not worth risking family contentment just to slake your lust. Or, her's.
I completely disagree with this. A cautious approach is recommended but if it is a mutual attraction then theres nothing to stop you having a sexual relationship. This interaction can strengthen bonds and be very fulfilling. There's no better time to show your sister love and affection!
Wait until you hear her masturbating inside her room. Knock at the door and tell her you got her favorite drink, and ask if you can go inside. If she wants you, she will let you in and fuck your brains out since she will be super horny for not being able to get off.