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Not cheated on, but feel like it
I'm 23 and dating this woman who is 22. Of course in the cellphone era, taking vids is easy, and on her external hard drive I came across a bunch of videos of her with her former boyfriends, three to be exact.
Two of the videos are honestly pretty loving and nice, but there is one where she fucked her boyfriend's friend and begged for him to "cum in my pussy." It is a slutty video. It was before we were together, but I feel cheated on. That is honestly how it feels.
I told her that I found her videos and asked her to delete them, as going forward she is with me now, but she said I invaded her privacy and that her video diaries, as she calls them, are her business and only her business. I said we're dating and it's now my business and our business. She said having a nice memory is not a crime and she will not delete the videos. I'm not sure if I'm being unreasonable, but it pisses me off. By the way, we film ourselves having sex too and that is all I want to have her look at, not former guys she's been with.
Whether you invaded her privacy or not, she has a past, get used to it. You have a past, why can't she? And if you two don't solve this issue soon, your relationship will never be trusting.
You have her answer. Suck it up and know she will do whatever she wants as it pertains to her previous exploits. Question is, will she claim all the future vids are old? I'd have to say this is where you decide... Can you live with it? Doesn't make a rat's ass what anyone else thinks.
Yes, you are being unreasonable. Those are her memories and when you break up with her she will have lost them for no reason.