Black guys and sharing partners

Are black guys more into sharing their partners than white guys? I just ask because I'm dating a black guy for the first time and he's really eager to share me.

I'm 41, newly divorced, and had only been with white guys in monogamous relationships. I've never cheated in my life. A friend of mine hooked me up with this black guy Richard. He's really sweet. We've been dating for a month. I stay over at his place a few nights a week. I still have my own place. He sometimes has friends over to play cards, smoke cigars, and enjoy cocktails.

Richard was really subtle about bringing up sharing at first. He'd ask me if I thought any of his friends were attractive. I said, "sure" but said I thought he was the most handsome. When we'd have sex he'd mention the names of one or two of his friends and ask me if I'd want them to fuck me. It was a little odd. He finally got bold enough to flat out ask me if he could share me. I'd never done threesomes or any casual sex like that but I said, "Maybe once, just to try it."

It all went down at one of Richard's poker parties. Richard pulled out his cock and I went down on him. His three friends watched a bit, but then I felt hands on my tits, hands on my ass, etc. It wasn't long before my shorts got unzipped and pulled down to my knees. My top got pulled off, my bra unhooked, and for the next hour I was the center of attention. I fucked all the guys mostly doggy in spit roasts, but then after awhile got flipped up on the table for some missionary. I won't lie: the sex was great. We all got off.

I talked to Richard about it afterwards, and I said it was a great time, the guys were really gentle and nice, but I preferred to just have sex with him from now on. It's a little more special when you're in a monogamous relationship, imo. He's still into sharing and brings it up, hoping that I'll do it again. I don't think so. I really like this guy, but sexually the sharing thing is a little weird. I'm not sure if I can handle this long-term.

Anyone else here date a black guy who was fixated on sharing his partner?


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  • Blacks are disgusting filthy creatures who have no respect for women, especially white women. Only a damaged White woman with very low self esteem and/or serious psychological issues would fuck a knee grow.

  • I think they just used me when I dated black guys. Like they were excited to finally get with a white girl, so they did everything I’d let them get away with. The only time I was shred with friends was with a black guy who I dated for a few months. I got drunk and he took me into a room with two other guys and started kissing me and undressing me, then he talked me into touching the other guys as we had sex, then he kept pushing me to do more until they all had sex with me. After that, his friends would not hide their desire to do it again, and I ended up getting drunk again and doing again a few more times. I couldn’t deal so I ended the relationship.

  • Chances are that you not the first white girl on whom Richard and his buddies have run a train. Some guys look at women like a piece of fuckmeat. If you are looking for a "normal" relationship, you might need to look elsewhere.

  • You’re just another number, my last man just used me and my body for their excitement. Long term I was just a whore for them.

  • It’s not a black guy thing. Just his thing. If I were you I’d just tell him your not that interested in it. If he can’t handle it then you know what you gotta do.

  • Richard doesn't love you. You're just a number to him and his buddies. Run and leave him and don't look back. Find yourself a nice white man who will truly love you.

  • White guys like to share too. It’s a man thing.

  • Very true

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