Taking it anally
Initially I just hated the thought of anal sex, I thought it was just so dirty would hurt like hell and indicated that my husband was probably bi or could end up being gay.
We often discussed it, he always loved patting my bum and as the opportunity arose slipping a finger or even two into my behind when we were doing doggie I always rejected and complained but after talking to a few girls at work was convinced I should give it a go even if only the once, we started slow with lube, butt plugs and him fingering me, the initial mounting was not so good however enough to have me feel like I should continue.
I am so glad I persisted as now we both love anal particularly doggie style, it is our main sexual position plus my husband is not bi or gay.
My wife was against anal for a long time. Her friend Sheila was always hanging around. We would all get into some really lewd conversations. Mostly looking for a laugh. My wife brought up that I wanted to have anal. Sheila asked, giving or receiving. We all got a good laugh. Then my wife came back with, "Both". Another laugh. Sheila said that her first husband wanted anal but she refused. After listening to his whining, she said she would if he would. Now he was refusing. After a while, she started pushing to get a piece of his ass. He gave in after a while. Over a few months they trained each other with plugs, beads, and dildos. She ended up pegging her husband on a regular basis. Sheila said they both loved it both giving and receiving. Sheila said we should give it a try. Well we did. We trained and played for several months. After we were comfortable we went for it. My wife insisted on going first. I thought I was going to get to finally fuck her ass. What she meant was, she was going to fuck me first. She did with a strap on, about the size of my dick, to be fair. I will say, it was great. All the anticipation over the months made it very exciting for both of us. The got her turn next. She too liked it. Now it's part of our regular routine.
I think a lot of men like anal sex with woman without being gay or bi.
I am a man who loves anal sex to the point of preferring it to regular sex. I have had relationships with woman who have let me do it but only one who liked it as much as me. It became very normal for us to have anal sex 2 or 3 times a day.
She used to say she had better orgasms from anal and for me the added tightness was great, but not the only factor as to why it was so fun for me.
Like a lot of men i enjoyed the fact that buggering my ex’s was taboo but I also loved the sense of power and dominance I felt from sodomising her especially in the doggie style position